By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes speak with wives who are dealing with a gut-wrenching kind of betrayal — the kind that doesn’t involve a hotel room or a confession of a physical act, but still leaves them just as shaken. I’m talking about emotional affairs — those secret connections that might not involve physical intimacy, […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Over the years, I’ve had a lot of heartbreaking messages from wives who are struggling to wrap their minds around how a husband who had an affair can still claim to love them. One woman recently said it like this: “I keep asking him if he loves the other woman. Because to […]
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By: Katie Lersch: One of the most common — and painful — questions I hear from wives after infidelity is: “Why did he do it?” Many of these women were completely blindsided. They thought things were fine — maybe even happy — and suddenly, they’re facing the fallout of an affair they never saw coming. […]
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By: Katie Lersch: When a husband cheats, it can shatter the foundation of even the strongest marriage. I often hear from wives who are doing everything they can to heal and move forward, but the biggest hurdle standing in their way is learning how to trust again. It’s not that they don’t want to trust. […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I once spoke with a wife who asked a question I’ve heard a lot before. It’s a deeply personal issue that rarely gets talked about. She and her husband were trying to heal after his short-term affair. He had done most of what she asked—ended the other relationship, committed to rebuilding trust, […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Not long ago, I heard from a woman who felt like she was carrying around a secret too shameful to speak out loud. Her words came out like a confession: “I love my husband… but he had an affair.” She said it like those two things couldn’t possibly exist in the same […]
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By: Katie Lersch: One of the most difficult hurdles couples face after infidelity isn’t just rebuilding trust — it’s rebuilding intimacy. I often hear from women who genuinely want to save their marriages after a husband’s affair. They’re committed to the process, willing to go to counseling, open to communication, and eager to heal. They try […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes dialogue with wives who are struggling to forgive their husbands’ affairs. Some are still reeling from the betrayal. Others want to move forward but feel completely stuck. They say things like: “I want to forgive him. I want to save our marriage. But I don’t know how to let this go. […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I once spoke with a wife who was feeling totally lost and shut out. A few weeks ago, she discovered her husband had been having an affair. She confronted him. She expected—maybe even hoped—for a flood of remorse. At the very least, she thought he’d want to talk about what happened. But […]
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By Katie Lersch: I’ll be honest. I don’t think anything quite prepares you for the moment you find out your husband has had an affair. It’s not just a breach of trust — it’s a total unraveling of the life you thought you knew. One minute, you think you’re in a familiar place with a […]
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