By: Katie Lersch: There are various reasons that people will stay in the relationship after one partner cheats or has an affair. Some reasons are perceived as more valid than others. Remaining in the relationship for the benefit of a couple’s children is usually perceived as one of the best, most valid reasons. But that […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Let’s face it. Discovering an affair is almost always a huge shock and disappointment. Very few people go into their marriage knowing or accepting that their spouse will cheat on them one day. Most people assume that their relationship is going to be different. People who perceive their spouses as very honest […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives expect their husbands to apologize profusely and to try to overcompensate in the aftermath of an affair. After all, he has committed one of the most grievous offenses in a marriage. Wives often say that if they were caught cheating, they couldn’t do enough to show their regret. Unfortunately, this […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Over and over again, I’ve noticed that one thing that makes healing or picking up the pieces so difficult for faithful wives dealing with infidelity is the husband’s attitude about life with the other woman. Even if there is obvious evidence otherwise, many husbands insist that life with the other woman is […]
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By: Katie Lersch: There is a subset of unfaithful husbands who seem to believe that they aren’t actually cheating if they don’t ever admit to or accept it. They figure if they can keep tap-dancing around and never give their wives a firm confirmation that yes, they’ve been cheating, then they’re in the clear. Of […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from women who are having a hard time believing that a man feels guilty for cheating or having an affair. Often, it is the wife who had her doubts. But other times, it is the other woman who eventually can’t help but notice that the husband seems to think […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from husbands or wives who want to know if their spouse will ever regret cheating on them. Many times, the cheating spouse has been able to justify their actions or is making all sorts of excuses for the same. Many spouses who cheat don’t seem to have an ounce […]
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by: katie lersch: I often hear from women who are struggling to work through their husband’s cheating or affair. Many ask me about writing a letter to put their struggles into words. Some have even asked me for a sample letter or requested for me to write one for them. I honestly think it’s advisable […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who don’t buy for a second that their unfaithful husband regrets having an affair. Sure, some of these husbands half-heartedly claim that they are sorry or have regret. But their actions usually say something else. And some of the husbands don’t even make these sorts of claims. […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives struggling to deal with infidelity wish they could get their husbands to think (and act) in a certain way. Struggling to process the fact that your husband has betrayed you is already a huge uphill battle. But having a husband who acts as if he’s suffered no fallout from his […]
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