Infidelity Articles By Katie Lersch

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who deeply regret that their relationship with their spouse has changed after one spouse has cheated and had an affair. Often, they feel sure that their spouse no longer has a romantic interest in them. And this can happen with either the cheating spouse or the faithful […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from panicked people who are being threatened by the person with whom they are cheating.  Often, they are dragging their feet toward taking the affair to the next level.  So their cheating partner begins to apply some pressure by threatening to tell their spouse about the infidelity.  And that […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who are very disappointed with the way that their spouse is handling the aftermath of the affair.  Often, their spouse has promised that they will prove their love and commitment.  However, the reality of this is quite different than the promises.  In short, they haven’t made good […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who feel guilty for wanting to withdrawal from their marriage (at least temporarily) after an affair has occurred. Sometimes, the person who wants to withdrawal is the cheating spouse. But sometimes, it is the faithful spouse. Common comments from the cheating spouse are things like: “I know that my […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from people who are experiencing extremely negative feelings and deep shame after having an affair.  And, many of them are wondering how they can move past this because they know that all of this negativity is really serving no purpose and isn’t help them in any way. I heard […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are very disappointed that their husband won’t stand up and be accountable after he cheated and had an affair. Instead, he is just becoming frustrated, throwing up his hands, and says he can’t deal with all of this. I heard from wife who said: “my husband […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are struggling with how to classify or view their husband after he cheated or had an affair. Often, they have always thought of their husband as a high quality person with integrity. But now, they are no longer so sure of this assessment. I heard from […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  I often hear from people who are wondering if they should believe their spouse’s claims that he is more in love with them after he has made the mistake of cheating or having an affair.  Often, they truly want to believe him because they want to have some security after having been […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  I often hear from people who feel short changed after their spouse cheated or had an affair.  They often feel that they were the one who had to do all of the forgiving and who had to make all of the concessions while their spouse is the one who gets to make […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who very much regret having an affair. Not only do they often realize too late that the affair was a huge mistake, but now they must face the fact that they have also put their marriage in jeopardy. Many soon realize that living with this type of […]

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