Infidelity Articles By Katie Lersch

By: Katie Lersch:  I often hear from spouses who are genuinely remorseful for their infidelity but who are also genuinely tired of having to talk about, discuss, or rehash the details of the affair endlessly.  They often wonder just how many times they are going to have to go over the same details.  They wonder […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are dealing with some very difficult truths.  First of all, they are dealing with the fact that their husband has been unfaithful and having an affair.  And second, they are dealing with a husband who now doesn’t want to return home and who doesn’t know if […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives whose cheating husband’s words are saying one thing, but whose actions are saying another.  Often, the husband is claiming that he would do anything to save his marriage but, at the same time, he is acting angry, distant, and resentful.  The wife can not help but wonder […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives who don’t feel as if they have completely healed since their husband’s affair.  This can be true regardless of whether or not they stayed with their husband.  Often, no matter what has happened or how much time has passed, they still feel like they haven’t let go […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are unsure if they will ever be inclined to forgive their husband for cheating or having an affair. Unfortunately, society often gives these wives not so subtle messages about the necessity of forgiving sooner rather than later. I heard from a wife who said: “my husband […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from folks who are looking for advice in order to help them get back their spouse after they have cheated or had an affair.  They often worry that it’s too late and this hurts them deeply because there is nothing that they can do to turn back time.   […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  I often hear from wives who are wondering if their husband is lying when he claims to love them while carrying on an affair that he can not seem to let go of.  The wives often suspect him of lying and of being present only because he doesn’t want to pay for […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are so frustrated because their husband seems to have blinders on when it comes to the other woman with whom he is having an affair.  Often, it is as if their husband has lost all of his common sense, at least where she is concerned.  Much […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from spouses who want to offer some sort of gift to indicate how sorry they are for cheating or for having an affair.  And yet, everything that they consider seems wrong. They want to get the perfect object that shows their sincerity in moving forward.  But they aren’t sure […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who honestly can’t find any fault with the way that their husband is acting toward them.  Typically, he is being very affectionate after his affair- almost overly so.  And this can make the wife doubt his sincerity and she can question her ability to trust his actions. […]

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