Infidelity Articles By Katie Lersch

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who very much want to save their marriage but who don’t know how much longer they are going to be able to tolerate feeling as if they need to compete with the other woman.  Often, the husband has promised that the relationship is over. And yet, for […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who aren’t sure how they should be acting after they have discovered their husband’s affair. Often, they take some time to determine what they ultimately want to happen. And when they decide that they might want to save their marriage, they still want to do it in […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who just aren’t buying their husband’s excuses with regards to his affair.  One common complaint is husbands having a lame excuse as to why the affair lasted as long as it did.  Many times, his excuse doesn’t even sound plausible. I heard from a wife who said: […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear with wives who feel that, no matter what their husband is claiming at the time, they are dealing with very serious infidelity within their marriage and, as a result, they are not sure that their marriage is going to survive.  Often, their husband is assuring them that, despite his […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who aren’t sure if their marriage is going to survive their husband’s affair.  They don’t know how they are ever going to get over the betrayal, the pain, the doubt, and the lack of trust. Often, a husband’s solution to this is to suggest that the couple […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are extremely upset that their unfaithful husband is trying to resume their sex life far too soon. Often, it’s not that the wife never wants to have sex with her husband again.  It’s just that the pain is very fresh and she wants to rebuild the […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who are struggling to come up with some sort of compromise after one of them cheated or had an affair.  Often, the faithful spouse wants to see some drastic concessions in order to begin to reestablish the trust.  But the cheating spouse can sometimes feel that they […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who want and deserve answers about their spouse’s affair but who are meeting resistance about the same.  Often their spouse becomes angry or just refuse to talk about it. I heard from a wife who said: “I found out about three weeks ago that my husband had […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from people who aren’t sure what their spouse means  by demanding that they “take responsibility for cheating.”  Because often, the cheating spouse feels that they have done just that, but the faithful spouse still doesn’t seem to be satisfied or happy with them.  So they are often looking for […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who are upset because they are struggling to save their marriage after an affair and their last hope seems to be waning.  They knew that saving their marriage was going to be a challenge, but they hoped that if they were successful at convincing their spouse to […]

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