By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who feel that they need to change in order for their husband to remain faithful. This always concerns me because often the reasons that men cheat have nothing to do with their attraction to their wife. Instead of it being about what is wrong with their wives, […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from folks who feel as if they don’t have any one with whom they can be completely honest about their marriage and the recent infidelity that has threatened it. Sometimes, this concern comes from the faithful spouse. You’ll often hear comments like: “I really wish I had someone to […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are having a very hard time formulating a plan after their husband has cheated or had an affair. Often, their first inclination is to leave and turn their back on their husband and on their marriage. But, often, this feels very abrupt and not quite right. […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are extremely confused as to what their husband could possibly see in the other woman. They often have sought out this woman and taken a good long stare at her. They’ve tried to view her from different angles or perspectives and they are still coming up […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are broken hearted not just because their husband has been having an affair, but also because he can’t or won’t come to a decision as to whether he wants to end that same affair. This can feel like a double betrayal especially when you are still […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who have had the unfortunate experience of being told of their husband’s infidelity by the woman with whom he has been cheating. Finding out that your husband has been unfaithful is horrible enough. But hearing these words come out of the woman who has also betrayed you […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from couples who disagree about when (or even if) to have sex when they are trying to recover from infidelity. Sometimes, I hear from the faithful spouse who is confused and upset that the cheating spouse isn’t trying to have sex with them. They will often wonder if this means […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are trying to gauge their husband’s reactions and feelings after infidelity has rocked their marriage. Often, the husband isn’t very forthcoming about his feelings or wishes because he doesn’t want to anger or hurt his wife. So unfortunately, the wife is left with taking her best […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are on the receiving end of an excuse for cheating that focuses on her strengths and on her husband’s flaws. In short, he is telling her that the reason he cheated or had an affair is because their relationship encourages (or causes) his low self esteem. […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who aren’t certain how to respond when their husband says something extremely hurtful as it relates to his fidelity. Sometimes, he will actually insinuate that something about the wife or the marriage tests his fidelity. Not only can the wife be hurt and horrified to hear this, […]
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