By: Katie Lersch: I’m not going to pretend that any wife who is dealing with an unfaithful husband has an easy time of it. No matter the circumstances, dealing with a cheating husband is a cruel heartache. There is rarely an obvious bright side. That said, wives who deal with husbands who’ve actually moved out […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Most people understand why the faithful spouse is angry after infidelity. They have every right to be. They were the spouse who was lied to, betrayed, and disrespected. But few people understand why the cheating spouse would get angry. This is often true of the cheating spouse herself. Understandably, these spouses are […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I can’t tell you how many people have told me that their spouse doesn’t love them – and has never truly loved them – since he cheated. Even spouses who don’t believe this can have friends or family who make the same proclamation. The thinking goes that there is no way that […]
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By: Katie Lersch: There honestly isn’t an ideal time for a spouse to cheat. Even if you are flying high in life, having a spouse cheat on you can knock you down very low. However, it’s fair to say that some people endure an affair at the worst possible time. And that can make the […]
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By: Katie Lersch: There’s no way to sugar coat it. No matter how much you try to lean on your integrity and deal with the affair in a healthy way, the sex issue is going to come up. It’s going to be that thing between you that you really don’t want to talk about but […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Most of the people who reach out to me are women. However, I occasionally hear from men or husbands. I’ve come to believe that many of them are sincere in their requests for information. It must be obvious that my inclination is going to be to empathize with wives. Yet, some men […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I’ve commented that most affairs will burn themselves out fairly quickly. And this is true much of the time. But unfortunately, I hear from plenty of folks dealing with long-term affairs that have lasted months, or in some cases, years or even decades. Trying to move past an affair is very difficult, […]
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By: katie lersch: If you’re Googling and researching phrases like “how to survive an affair,” “how to forgive my husband’s affair,” “how to get past an affair,” etc., then I can certainly identify and empathize with you and hope that I can help. My husband had an affair several years ago and at that time, I […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Some wives who have the misfortune of having a cheating husband decide pretty early on that this is a deal-breaker from which there is no recovery. No matter how much these wives may wish that this wasn’t their reality, they know that it is. And they believe that no matter how much […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Of all of the issues that crop up after an affair, sexual issues are where many wives place their focus and feel the most pain. Yes, we are furious about the lies and the betrayal. But the idea of our husbands engaging in physical and intimate activity with someone else is, for […]
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