Infidelity Articles By Katie Lersch

By: Katie Lersch: Many people worry that all of the lies about the affair are going to mean that their marriage can’t be saved.  Sometimes, the person who had the affair has started to tell the truth, but other times, they are still lying.  And this can leave the faithful spouse wondering if their marriage […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  Some wives are dealing with a double blow.  Not only have they just found out that their husband has been cheating, they have found out that their husband has been cheating or having an affair with one of their friends.  This can feel like a multiplied betrayal because two people that you […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Many women are frustrated and angry by the reasons that their husband is giving to justify his cheating or affair.  Sometimes, men will try to make it seem as if the other woman had something special to entice them into cheating.  And other times, the husband will try to blame his wife […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives are annoyed and troubled that the other woman is still trying to keep in contact with the husband. One common way that she will attempt to do this is through texting. That way, she doesn’t have to actually talk to him and risk rejection, but she is still inserting herself […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives can’t stop very hurtful and repetitive thoughts about the woman with whom their husband has been cheating or having an affair. Common comments are things like this from a wife: “my husband and I are trying to repair our marriage and I am committed to that process. But the major problem […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  Many people are desperately trying to reach out to their spouse after they’ve been caught having an affair, but they aren’t having any success at all with this.   Sometimes the faithful spouse not only won’t talk, but they refuse to listen also. It can feel as if you’re running into a […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Some people have ended their affair, but want to save their marriage.  They are now wondering how many details of the affair they should disclose. In fact, many don’t want to disclose any details about the affair (or even its very existence) because they know that all this is going to do […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from folks who have made the very important decision to end an affair to save their marriages. And very often, they know in their hearts that this is the right thing to do, but they wonder what obligation they have to the other person with whom they were cheating. […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives want to confront or talk to the woman that their husband has been cheating with. Some women even take this concept a little further and decide that they want to meet with the other woman AND their husbands all at the same time. Often, they have some things that they […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Some wives are confused when they can’t help but notice that their husband seems to be almost in mourning after his affair is over. They often can’t ignore the fact that he is moping around the house, is withdrawn, or is so introverted that he’s not interacting with hardly anyone.  This is […]

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