Should I Just Let Him Have His Affair? Here’s My Opinion

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives have tried various approaches to get their husband to end his affair.  And yet, nothing has worked.  Either the husband has refused to end the affair, has begged for more time to make up his mind, or has continued to see the other woman despite his claims that he wouldn’t. […]

My Husband Is Showing A Lot Of Anger And Even Rage After I Made Him Break Off His Affair. Why? And How Do I Deal With It?

By: Katie Lersch: Some wives are surprised to see their husband so angry after being forced to break off his affair. The wives often aren’t sure about the source of his anger and when (or if) it will end. One of these wives might say: “I’d suspected that my husband had been cheating for a […]

My Husband Cheated. Now I Want To Cheat. Why Retaliating Cheating Is A Bad Idea

By: Katie Lersch: Sometimes people are very tempted to cheat in retaliation because their spouse has cheated on them first. There are often many factors that contribute to this. Sometimes, it is revenge. Other times, there is curiosity as to how it feels to cheat. Finally, many people figure that if their spouse is allowed […]

Could His Affair Have Made Him Realize He Loves Me?

By: Katie Lersch: Many women wonder if they can or should believe their husband’s claim that his infidelity has made him realize just how much he loves them after all. Some of the wives who hear this claim truly want to believe this. Some of them are being cautioned against believing these claims by well-meaning […]

My Husband Is Showering Me With Gifts After His Cheating And Affair

By: Katie Lersch:  Many wives have husbands who are giving them gifts or presents after he has been caught cheating or having an affair.  Often, the wives want to know if these gifts indicate guilt.  They wonder how they should respond to the gifts and what they mean for their marriage or for their recovery. […]

My Husband Is Now Saying I’m The Love Of His Life After His Affair

By: Katie Lersch:  Many women are trying to evaluate their husband’s claims of everlasting love or sorrow after he has been caught having an affair.  Many have their doubts about these claims and have a strong suspicion that he is only making these claims to minimize the fall out from the affair. One might say: […]

Delayed Anger After The Affair: What Does It Mean And What Can You Do About It?

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives experience intense anger long after the affair has been discovered. They are often quite frustrated by this and don’t understand why it is happening so long after the fact. One might say: “for weeks after my husband’s affair, I was very calm. It wasn’t that I wasn’t mad or upset. […]

Do I Tell The Other Woman That I Know She Is Cheating With My Husband?

By: Katie Lersch: Many women aren’t sure how to proceed when they first find out that their husband is cheating. Often, they know many of the details, but the guilty parties aren’t aware of this knowledge.  And they wonder if they should confront their husband, the other woman, or both.  Many wives are tempted to […]

My Husband Said He Only Had A Fling, Not An Affair. What’s The Difference?

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives aren’t sure how to classify their husband’s infidelity.  This can be particularly true when the husband is claiming that his infidelity is not as bad as it could have been.  Many husbands will attempt to differentiate between a one night stand, a fling, cheating, and an affair. A confused wife […]

I Don’t Trust Other Women After My Husband Cheated And Had An Affair: Tips That Might Help

By: Katie Lersch: A wife can have serious trust issues after her husband cheats or has an affair.  After all, the person closest to her has betrayed her in a very personal and painful way.  Many wives find that not only do they have trouble trusting their husband, they have trouble trusting many different people, […]