By: Katie Lersch: Many wives aren’t sure what to demand of their husband after he has been caught cheating or having an affair. Many immediately want to demand that their husband cut off all contact with the other woman. But sometimes, the husband balks at this request or well-meaning friends and family offer advice that […]
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By Katie Lersch: Many people wonder what happens now that the affair is out in the open. Often, the discovery of the cheating or the affair is so emotional and volatile. But then the days that follow present their own challenges. Many people aren’t quite sure how they should act or how to carry out […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives are trying to figure out just how serious a threat their husband’s affair is to their marriage. Some wives hope that the affair was just a fling that didn’t mean anything. A wife could say: “after my repeatedly asking him, my husband finally admitted to an affair. I knew something […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Some people are either attempting to find justification of infidelity or they are trying to look on the bright side. Here are some examples. I might hear from a man who has decided to cheat on his wife. He will say something like: “my wife doesn’t meet my needs anymore. My marriage […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Both husbands and wives (as well as the faithful spouse and the cheating spouse) can be criticized for their decision to take time out to do some soul searching after one spouse has cheated or had an affair. An example of a cheating husband is something like: “after my wife found out […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives see their husband’s mistress or “other woman” very clearly and realistically when their husband just can’t do the same. Many wives feel that the other woman is a gold digger, an opportunist, or a person of extremely low integrity, but they don’t know how to make their husband see or […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Both wives and women who cheat with married men wonder why unfaithful men claim that their wives do not understand them. Common comments from the “other woman” are things like: “the man who I have been cheating with told me that his wife is cold and unfeeling. He says that she doesn’t […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives see their husband in a new and completely unflattering way after they find out that he cheated or had an affair. Some adjectives I hear wives use to describe their husbands are words like creepy, disgusting, repulsive, perverted, or deviant. One might say said: “I have found out that my […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Understandably, many wives want their husbands to “pay” or “suffer” for cheating or having an affair. Many can focus on little else but getting revenge or on making their husbands gravely sorry for cheating. One might say: “my husband cheated on me with a much younger woman. I am so furious. I […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many are worried about their husband’s behaviors after he cheated or had an affair. They sincerely hope for a husband who is willing to do anything necessary to make things right again, but this isn’t always what happens. Instead, many husbands will sulk, pout, or isolate themselves. The wives often aren’t sure […]
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