Infidelity Articles By Katie Lersch

By: Katie Lersch:  It’s not uncommon for wives to spend a lot of time thinking about the woman with whom their husband cheated or had an affair.  This can be true even after the affair has long been over.  One common concern is if the other woman still thinks about the husband (and vice verse.) […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  Some women feel a little insecure about their decision to take back their husband after he cheated or had an affair.   And quite often, these wives worry more about what other people think than about what they themselves think.  They often worry quite a bit about outward appearances and what their friends […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives are trying to deal with two frustrations simultaneously.  First, they are devastated that their husband has admitted to cheating.  And second, they are beside themselves because he won’t disclose who he has been cheating with. You might hear: “my husband finally admitted that he has been cheating.  I’ve strongly suspected […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives wonder if they will ever be truly happy again after their husband cheated or had an affair.  Many can divide their happiness level into two levels – before the infidelity and after it. Someone could explain, “although it might be hard to believe today, I actually used to be a […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  Many married people stop really talking to one another after one of them has had an affair.  Many of them are committed to saving their marriages, but they’re now struggling because they feel awkward and unheard. A wife might say: “my husband had an affair with one of my close friends.  I […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I hear from wives who are trying to do everything in their power to keep their husbands from cheating again.  Many insist on joint marital counseling, and many husbands reluctantly agree.  But some husband’s balk at the idea of individual counseling.  Going to counseling on their own is often encouraged for husbands […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who are getting discouraged as they are trying to rebuild their marriage following cheating or an affair. Sometimes, they find themselves asking if the struggles are even worth it. One spouse might say: “my husband had an affair last year. We are both committed to rebuilding our […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I can hear from wives who are struggling after their husband has admitted feelings or an attraction to someone else. Many worry if this confession means that cheating or an affair is going to happen in the future or already has happened. Someone might say: “I noticed a distance from my husband […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are dealing with husbands who are repeat cheaters. These wives are often so tired of the lies.  In the beginning, these wives may have actually believed their husband when he promised he would never cheat again. But, over time and as he cheats again, she is […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from couples who are in a marriage in which both of them have cheated. Sometimes, one spouse cheats to “get back” at the other for the initial infidelity. Other times, both spouses cheated (sometimes without knowing about the other spouses’ infidelity) simply because the marriage was struggling. In either […]

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