By: Katie Lersch: I believe that the percentage of wives who feel that their husband has offered full disclosure about his affair is minuscule. Even if a wife believes that her husband is mostly trying to be honest, she may still suspect that he is holding something back. And these are the lucky wives because […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Remorse is one place where wives dealing with unfaithful husbands tend to hyper-focus. It is challenging to forgive under these circumstances. But it is almost impossible to forgive when your husband is indignant that he did nothing wrong. Often, it is difficult to determine just how sorry a husband is when his […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from spouses who are so upset that their cheating spouse is not only not showing remorse and guilt, they are being downright hateful and mean. This can leave the faithful spouse wondering what they have done to deserve this kind of treatment, especially since they weren’t the one who […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Dealing with a cheating spouse isn’t easy, no matter the circumstances. However, some wives feel strongly that their experience is worse than that of others. These wives have a husband who is seemingly so obsessed with the other woman that he refuses to listen to reason. Many of these wives theorize that […]
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by: katie lersch: I often hear from wives whose main goal for the short term is getting their husband away from the woman that he is cheating or having an affair with. Many give their husband’s ultimatums and flat out tell him that he has to make a choice between his wife and the other […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives doubt the sincerity of what their husband is saying after he cheated or had an affair. This can especially be true when the husband is insisting that he wants to stay in or save the marriage when his previous actions have completely contradicted his claims. The wife can wonder if […]
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By: Katie Lersch: It can be frustrating when you fight so hard to move past infidelity, only to have a few select people insist on continuing to live in the past. It is even worse when these people aren’t the spouses involved in the infidelity, but are their extended families instead. Someone might say, “Despite […]
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By: Katie Lersch: It’s not uncommon for me to hear from wives and from mistresses who just don’t get why a man who was actively involved in an affair (for which he was willing to risk everything) will suddenly dramatically change his behavior and decide that he now wants his family back. A common comment […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives dealing with infidelity believe that if they can get to a place of forgiveness, then complete healing will follow, and they can move on with their lives. While forgiveness can feel incredibly freeing and can be helpful to your marriage, it doesn’t always fix everything. Many wives are surprised to […]
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The time frame for letting go of an affair is a concern that I hear from people on both sides of the issue. For example, I sometimes hear from the spouse who was cheated on. Sometimes, they can’t help but notice that the spouse who cheated appears not to have totally “let go” of the […]
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