Infidelity Articles By Katie Lersch

By: Katie Lersch: If you’ve recently found out your husband cheated, I don’t have to tell you how confusing and all-consuming the emotional fallout can be. One minute, you’re crushed and numb. The next, you’re furious. Then comes the urge to do something — to regain a sense of control, to make him hurt even a […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Sometimes, I hear comments asking, “How to heal after an affair.”  It’s true that when your spouse has an affair, you can feel as though you’re the walking wounded or as if you have a big gaping wound in your heart that you’re not sure if you’ll ever be able to fix. […]

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By: Katie Lersch: If you’ve recently found out about your spouse’s affair, then you probably already know that nothing feels “normal” anymore. In fact, one of the most common things I hear from readers is something like: “I don’t even know what my life is now. Everything feels off. I can’t imagine going back to […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes dialogue with wives who tell me that although they’ve endlessly tried to forgive their husband’s cheating, infidelity, or affair, they’ve just not been able to. Many confess this as though it’s an awful kind of failure that’s caused by some place where they fell short. And, many assume that since […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from spouses who have made the grave mistake of cheating or having an affair. Many of them are genuinely sorry for this mistake and they want to make things right again. Most of them have repeatedly expressed their sorrow and remorse for their actions. But, much of the time, […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from faithful wives who are struggling to make sense of their husband’s behavior after an affair has come to light. One particularly painful pattern I’m asked about frequently is this: “Why won’t my husband show me any affection now that I know he cheated?” It’s confusing. In fact, it […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I mostly hear from betrayed spouses. But I also hear from a surprising number of people who were the ones who had the affair — and who now desperately want to save their marriage. They often say things like:“I messed up — I know that.”“I want to fix this, but everything I […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from women who are trying to get their lives back after their husbands had an affair. Recently, I heard from a wife who was trying very hard to save her marriage. But there were a few serious issues standing in the way of her being able to do this. […]

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By: Katie Lersch: One big worry for many wives who are trying to recover from their husband’s affair is how often he spends thinking about (or longing for) the affair and the other woman. Yes, most husbands will proclaim that the affair is 100% percent over. He may even claim that he wants to move […]

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By: Katie Lersch: If you’re reading this, you might still be reeling from the sting of infidelity, not just because your husband cheated, but because of what it did to your sense of self. Maybe you’re asking yourself: “Was I not enough?” or “Can I ever trust my own judgment again?” I often hear from women […]

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