Infidelity Articles By Katie Lersch

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who don’t think their husband is taking the repercussions of his affair seriously. This can be extremely frustrating when the wife is taking it so seriously that she can think about nothing else. And when a man doesn’t think that your feelings and your pain are important, […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from spouses who are overcome with emotion after they realize what a huge mistake they made by cheating on their spouse. They are often struggling with overwhelming feelings of guilt and shame. I might hear from a wife who says: “Last week, I had a one night stand with […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who are getting very tired of their spouse constantly questioning them and not trusting them after their infidelity. Although many understand that they gave their spouses a reason to doubt them, no one has endless levels of patience. And having your spouse constantly question you or act […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from panicked spouses who are being completely ignored after their cheating or their affair has been discovered. Often, they know that they deserve their spouse’s anger, but they are frightened that their spouse is going to continue ignoring them and that this might mean that their cheating will contribute […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are either considering confronting the other woman or mistress or suspect that she is going to confront them. Sometimes, the other woman has been calling or sending emails and the wife isn’t sure how she should react if this woman came knocking on her front door. […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from spouses who are dealing with the harsh, unkind reality that their spouse is angrier than they could have possibly imagined after their affair has been found out. Many imagined that this day might one day come while they were carrying out their affair. But sometimes, the reality of […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who want tips or advice on how to get back into their spouse’s good graces after they have been caught cheating or having an affair. They often know that they are in deep trouble with their spouse and they are looking for a way to prove themselves […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who worry that their husband’s affair means that they will never feel the same about anything in their life ever again. They describe the affair as the event that has sucked all of the joy out of their life. And they don’t envision this ever changing. They […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who are unsure if it is even worth it to try to save their marriage after their spouse has an affair. They often reason that if their spouse can betray them in the worst way possible, why should they even try to fix things? They often ask […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives who are reeling from their conversation with “the other woman,” the mistress, or the woman with whom their husband has been cheating or having an affair. These types of conversations almost never go well. Not only are they awkward, but they are often quite hurtful and do […]

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