By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are trying to decide on the best way to handle the woman at work (coworker) who their husband has cheated with. Often, they are left wondering if they should go and confront her face to face, if maybe they should contact via letter or email to […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are caught in kind of a love triangle between their husband and someone else. Their husband apparently can’t decide between them and the other woman. Often, they never suspected that they would find themselves in this position. But when the choice is to allow your husband […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives whose husbands are on the defensive after his affair. Often, the wife is just trying to clarify what happened to cause the infidelity, what happens to the marriage now, and how she can begin to heal. As a result, she understandably has some questions and some need […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from women who feel particularly damaged by their husband’s affair because of their change in their lives before and after this event. Many women describe themselves as completely different (and better) before their husband’s affair came into the picture. And this can make the fall out and the damage […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are having a hard time keeping quiet about their husband’s affair. This can be true even when the affair has long been over and a good amount of time has passed. Many times, the wives truly do want to move on, but they can’t seem to […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who don’t feel that they are being treated altogether fairly after their husband cheated or had an affair. They are often quite hurt, disappointed, and still reeling and yet they can feel a lot of pressure to just pick themselves up, dust themselves off, and move on […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many women who contact me are in a situation where their husband is still involved with the other woman or mistress despite the wife’s best efforts to get him away from her. Sometimes, he is actually now living with the other woman. Other times, he is still at home, but the wife […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many of the people who contact me are reeling from the shock of finding out that their spouse has had an affair. Usually, the pain is quite fresh for them and they cannot envision that they won’t always feel as awful as they do right now. I know that it can be […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Most of the time, I hear from people who have been cheated on. They usually really want to heal and begin to get their life back to normal, but they are often running into obstacles or struggling with difficult feelings and issues. Sometimes though, I hear from people who have cheated on […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I recently heard from a wife who was devastated to learn that her husband had chased after the woman, with whom he eventually had an affair. The wife had always assumed that the other woman had pursued her husband and so her anger lied mostly with the woman, not her husband. But […]
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