by: Katie Lersch: If I had to name the most common place where infidelity happens, it would be at the work place. I would say that the vast majority of the correspondence that I get about cheating and affairs happen in a workplace setting. And I often hear from people who are concerned about a […]
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By: katie lersch: I sometimes hear from spouses who deeply regret cheating or having an affair and are now looking for a way to make things up to their spouse to return the love to their marriage. I often hear comments like: “I want my wife to look at me with love in her eyes […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I get a lot of correspondence from wives who are struggling to understand more about their husband’s affair. Mostly, they are struggling to figure out why he would do such a thing and where they go from here. I recently heard from a wife who said “I really need help understanding my […]
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by: katie lerch: I often have wives contact me and ask about the best course of action while they are evaluating what they want to happen after their husband’s affair. This can be a tricky situation, especially when or if you’re being pressured by your husband. I recently heard from a wife whose husband was […]
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by: Katie Lersch: For whatever reason, one of the biggest concerns that many wives have after their husband has an affair is how he feels about them afterward. Even when wives are seething and furious at him (and devastated by his betrayal,) many worry (at least somewhere deep inside) if his infidelity means that he […]
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by katie lersch: Much of the correspondence that I get on my “surviving the affair” blog is from wives whose husbands have cheated. But on occasion, I also sometimes hear from “the other woman,” the mistress, or the person who had a relationship with a married men. The correspondence is quite varied. Some of the […]
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by: katie lersch: Forgiveness after an affair can be a real struggle. Some people struggle with forgiveness for quite a long time. And others are never able to offer it. But what happens if you’re asked to forgive an affair that happened years ago, but you were not told about it until recently? Does it […]
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by: katie lersch: When wives are trying to evaluate how they want to react to their husband’s affair (and whether they want to save their marriage in spite of it,) many will want as much information about the affair as they can possibly get. They gather this information because they want to see what they […]
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by: Katie Lersch: I recently heard from a wife who was almost certain that her husband had been having an affair. She had suspected it for a while, but had only recently taken the initiative to follow up and to try to obtain evidence of the same. Much to her surprise, she didn’t have a […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I recently heard from a wife who theorized that her husband had deliberately planned and then had an affair in order to end his marriage. She felt that his having an affair was his passive aggressive way to obtain a divorce because he was too cowardly to ask for one in any […]
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