How Can I Think More Positively After My Husband’s Affair?

By Katie Lersch:  I recently heard from a wife who had noticed a change in her attitude and her world view after finding out about her husband’s affair.  She said that she’d always been a “glass half full” type of person but since her husband cheated on her, she had a much more pessimistic view […]

Should I Approach My Husband’s Mistress?

by: katie lersch: I often get correspondence which ask questions about the best way to handle a husband’s mistress. Many wives want a strategy to get rid of this person once and for all. Many ask whether it’s a good idea to confront or talk to the other woman. Many wives hope that they can […]

Should I Know All Of The Details Of My Husband’s Cheating

by: katie lersch: I recently received an email from a wife who was very frustrated because her husband would not give her all of the details about his recent cheating on her. He would basically only tell her the time frame in which it happened in, how long it lasted, and that ultimately he had […]

Is It Possible To Start Over With A Clean Slate After Your Spouse Cheats Or Has An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I recently heard from a wife who was trying to best deal with her marriage after her husband had an affair.  The husband was pushing her to “just start over” and to proclaim that they were beginning again with a “clean slate.”  The wife was torn about this.  She was relieved that […]

How Will My Husband Act After I Confront Him About The Affair

by: katie lersch:  I recently heard from a wife who had found out that her husband had been cheating on her.  A mutual friend of the couple had come to the wife and told her that she had seen the wife’s husband at a restaurant with another woman.  The friend also said that it was clear that this was […]

Do Husbands Cheat Because Their Wives Don’t Appreciate Them?

by: katie lersch: If you spend any amount of time researching why men cheat on their wives, I’m extremely confident that you’ll read about this theory of cheating.  Many experts have been quite outspoken about their assertions that a man’s cheating has less to do with sex or his attraction to his wife and more to do with a husband not […]

The Steps to Getting Over Infidelity In Your Marriage

by: katie lersch: I get a lot of correspondence from people who are trying very hard to recover from or get over their spouse’s infidelity. Most of them really do have good intentions and are doing their very best. But, for various and understandable reasons, they sometimes get stuck and just can’t seem to be […]

Does My Spouse No Longer Love Me After My Affair? How Does He / She Really Feel About Me?

I sometimes hear from people who have recently cheated on their spouses and who have also been recently caught. By the time they contact me, they’ve often made at least some attempt at a reconciliation or at working things out with their spouse. They are often sorry and want advice on what they need to […]

How Do I Convince My Husband That The Woman He’s Cheating And Having An Affair With Is A Gold Digger And Only Interested In Money

I sometimes hear from wives who ask for advice on how to get their husband to see how stupid he is acting when he’s cheating or having an affair. They want him to wake up and see how silly and how embarrassing his actions truly are. I recently heard from a wife who felt this […]

What Would Be Good Payback For My Husband’s Cheating And Having An Affair: Read This Before You Decide

Sometimes, I have women who contact me and tell me that they’re looking for a “good payback” on their husband for his affair or his cheating. Understandably, they are extremely angry with him and they are looking for a way to make him very much regret cheating on them. Many women want to do something […]