I Feel So Ugly After My Husband Cheated And Had An Affair

I can’t tell you how often I hear this phrase from women.  I felt it myself so I know how it call feel.  So many times, women suffer a serious blow to their self esteem and to the way they feel about themselves when their husbands cheated or had an affair. Sometimes, they compare themselves to […]

I’m So Depressed After My Husband’s Affair

by: katie lersch: I often hear from wives who are struggling in a variety of ways after finding out that their husband had an affair or has cheated on them. Some of the concerns expressed are things like: “Some days, I don’t even want to get out of bed or take a shower. I know […]

Can Your Husband’s Affair Or Cheating Be A Wake Up Call? Why I Think It Can

I recently heard from a wife who had really been struggling to deal with her life and her marriage after her husband’s affair.  She had been talking to a trusted friend about the situation and the friend was trying her best to cheer her wife up.  The friend told the wife that an affair didn’t […]

I Feel So Unattractive Since My Husband Cheated And Had An Affair

by: katie lersch: I often hear from wives who are really struggling with their self esteem after their husband had an affair. I usually hear comments like: “I don’t think my husband finds me attractive anymore, but things have been even worse after his affair.” Or “I feel like my husband doesn’t desire me anymore. […]

Are Husbands Sorry For Their Infidelities?

I often hear from women who are trying to determine just how sorry their husband is for cheating or committing infidelities.  I often hear comments like: “I caught my husband cheating and he’s falling all over himself to say that he’s so sorry but I don’t know if I believe him or if I can […]

Can Taking Revenge After The Affair Restore My Self Esteem

I recently heard from a wife who was struggling with her self esteem after her husband’s affair.  The husband had cheated with a woman who was much younger.  After much time had passed and after much consideration, the couple decided to stay together.  The husband seemed committed, remorseful, and willing to work with the wife […]

Is It A Good Idea To Separate After An Affair? Here’s Some Pros And Cons

By: Katie Lersch:  I often hear from wives who aren’t sure which path to take after learning of their husband’s affair.  Many experience very conflicting desires.  On one hand, they want to save their marriage, but they also want to make their husband experience full remorse and responsibility for his actions.  In other words, they […]