Infidelity Articles By Katie Lersch

by: Katie Lersch: I sometimes receive emails from both wives and husbands who are absolutely stuck on this issue. It’s one of the most painful sticking points after infidelity, and it shows up in my inbox so often that I can almost anticipate the questions before I even open the message. A wife will write […]

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by: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who tell me, often with shame in their voices, that they thought they’d “be over” their husband’s affair by now. I’ll get emails that say things like: “It’s been years, and I’m still angry. I’m still hurt. I still can’t let it go. What’s wrong with me? […]

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Sometimes, I hear from wives who very much want to save their marriage and get their husband back after his affair – but there’s a problem.  Their husband thinks or believes that he’s “in love” with the other woman or mistress so, at least at this time, he’s not receptive to saving the marriage or […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I recently heard from a wife who told me, with a heartbreaking mix of anger and resignation, that the only reason she was still in her marriage was her children. After ten years together – and three kids she adored – she learned through a mutual friend that her husband had been […]

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by: Katie Lersch: I hear from wives all the time who say things like, “Everything changed the day I found out about his affair,” or “My whole life shifted after he cheated.” And if you’ve never lived through that moment yourself, you might think those statements sound dramatic or exaggerated. But once infidelity has touched […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I hear this question all the time from women: “How do I make him feel so guilty about the affair that he’ll never cheat again?” I get it. The fear that he’ll stray again is one of the hardest, most paralyzing feelings to live with. It keeps you watching his phone, waiting […]

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by Katie Lersch: Not long ago, I heard from a woman whose life had been upended by an affair. She wrote to me in that tight, raw voice people use when they’re still carrying the shock. She said: “I nursed him back to health when he was sick. I always put him first. I raised […]

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by: katie lersch: I once heard from a wife who found out her husband had been having a month-long affair – with someone they both knew. She didn’t see it coming. The news hit her so hard she felt hollowed out. She told me she didn’t want one horrible act to derail her whole life […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from spouses who are so upset that their cheating spouse is not only not showing remorse and guilt, they are being downright hateful and mean. This can leave the faithful spouse wondering what they have done to deserve this kind of treatment, especially since they weren’t the one who […]

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by: Katie Lersch: If you’re reading this, chances are good you’re carrying around more emotional weight than you ever thought one person could hold. Most of the women who reach out to me feel exactly that way. They’re trying to make sense of a husband’s cheating. They’re watching their self-esteem crumble. They’re mourning a life […]

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