Infidelity Articles By Katie Lersch

by: Katie Lersch: Finding out that your husband cheated is a fate that few would wish on their worst enemy. There are few things more painful, more difficult to overcome, and more likely to shake your world to its core. It’s no wonder then that you would want someone who will listen and be there […]

Filed under: Uncategorized by admin
Comments Off on My Husband Cheated on Me – Who Should I Tell? Who Shouldn’t I Tell?

By: Katie Lersch: This is the million-dollar question and one that I get on an almost daily basis. This is often the thing that stands between your being able to move on and eventually being happy and your being stuck and remaining unhappy and in pain. And, most of the time, you really don’t want […]

Filed under: Uncategorized by admin
Comments Off on How Can I Get the Images of My Husband’s Affair Out of My Head?

by: Katie Lersch: Of all of the topics that come up on my blog, I would have to say that forgiving infidelity is the most common. This is a huge thing to ask. It’s one thing to come to terms with or accept the infidelity or to want to move on from it. But forgive […]

Filed under: Uncategorized by admin
Comments Off on Forgiving Infidelity – Is it Possible? Should You Do It? If So, When?

by: Katie Lersch: Often, when I begin to tell people what I learned about my husband’s affair, I get knowing glances, or people will even interrupt and say things like “I know, you learned that you can’t trust men,” or “you know that if you trust someone you will always be hurt,” or “you learned […]

Filed under: Uncategorized by admin
Comments Off on What I Learned From My Husband’s Affair

by: Katie Lersch: Having a husband or boyfriend who cheated is a big hit to your self-esteem. You begin to doubt your marriage and your ability to make your husband happy or to be enough. There are tons of old stereotypes that imply that if a man cheats, it’s because his wife doesn’t understand him, […]

Filed under: Uncategorized by admin
Comments Off on Does an Affair Mean a Man Isn’t Happy in His Marriage? I’ll Tell You

By: Katie Lersch: I once heard from a wife whose husband had admitted to cheating. But, he was unwilling to give her many details about the same. Basically, all he would say was that he had been unfaithful with a coworker but that it was a “one-time thing that would never happen again.” The husband […]

Filed under: Uncategorized by admin
Comments Off on I Don’t Think My Husband Is Telling Me The Whole Story About His Cheating

by: Katie Lersch: Often, the articles that I write are meant to help wives who are having problems or difficulties forgiving and healing from a husband’s cheating. The other day though, I had a discussion that was a little different. This wife was not having trouble forgiving her husband’s affair (she already had), but because […]

Filed under: Uncategorized by admin
Comments Off on My Husband Can’t Forgive Himself For Cheating

by: Katie Lersch: Probably the biggest concern that my readers face (wives whose husbands have cheated) is the worry that he’s going to do it again. I get so many emails that say things like: “Is once a cheater always a cheater true?” “How do I know that he isn’t going to cheat on me […]

Filed under: Uncategorized by admin
Comments Off on If a Man Cheats, is He Likely to Cheat Again? I’ll Tell You

by: Katie Lersch: It’s understandable that you would want to confront the woman that your husband cheated with. You likely want her to know that this deception is over and that you know everything. She needs to know that she will no longer have free reign with your husband. You likely also need to put […]

Filed under: Uncategorized by admin
Comments Off on How to Let a Woman Know That You Know She Had an Affair With Your Husband

by: Katie Lersch: People often ask me if it’s possible “to start over” after one of the spouses in a marriage has had an affair. Understandably, usually one or both of the spouses doubt that things will ever “be the same” or “right” again. They suspect that this betrayal has forever altered (or ruined) the […]

Filed under: Uncategorized by admin
Comments Off on How to Save Your Marriage After an Affair – 4 Ways to Start Over