By: Katie Lersch: When you first find out that your husband has cheated and had an affair, it can feel as if life as you know it is over because nothing can ever be the same again. Many wives in this situation assume that in a couple of months, they’ll be divorced and alone. That’s […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Because of my own experience with infidelity, cheating is a topic that I have researched and thought about for a long while. And I find that almost universally, the cheating spouse wants to shorten the healing process while the faithful spouse wants to lengthen it. In other words, the cheating spouse is […]
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By: Katie Lersch: If you’ve never dealt with a spouse’s infidelity, you might assume that you’ll deal with a week or two of massive shock and sadness until you eventually level out in a relatively short period of time. Even if you’re still struggling, you might think, you’ll still need to start to move on […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Because of my past history with infidelity and the upkeep of this blog, I can’t tell you how often I think and talk about why men actually cheat on their wives. And I believe that I have an accurate answer, but it may surprise some people. See, most folks assume that when a […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives dealing with infidelity have countless questions about their husband’s affair. Not surprisingly, many of them are unsatisfied with the answers that they are receiving and the resistance that they are meeting when they ask these questions. You might hear a comment like, “I deserve answers about his affair. There are […]
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by: Katie Lersch: Some wives dealing with the aftermath of an affair may describe themselves as “overtaken with resentment.” As an example, a wife might be dealing with a husband who confessed that he’d had a year long affair. The wife didn’t even begin to see this coming and was completely blindsided and devastated. For […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Questions stemming from the trust after an affair is among the most common I hear. People want to know how they can ever trust again after so brutal a betrayal. And they worry that if they dare to trust, they might be burned again. A wife might say, “We are months post-cheating, […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Because of what happened to me, I’ve spoken with wives whose husbands have recently returned to them after cheating or having an affair. While many are relieved that their husbands have returned, they are also often filled with doubt about whether the marriage will survive and whether their husbands will end up […]
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By: Katie Lersch: One of the biggest concerns that many faithful wives dealing with an affair have is that of remorse and guilt. They WANT their husband to feel shame, guilt, and remorse. Because they figure if he experiences these painful emotions, he will think twice about cheating again. Unfortunately, many of these wives don’t […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Most people hope that they’ll never have to deal with marital infidelity. But when they do, it can be an unexpected pain that is unparalleled. The thought of moving on can seem impossible and very far away. Even when you want to start moving on, contemplating the steps to do so can […]
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