Infidelity Articles By Katie Lersch

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives who are reeling from infidelity begin to believe that this is a nightmare from which you can never awaken. Once you accept the fact that your spouse has lied to and cheated on you, how can you ever come back from that? Once you have seen such a reality, there […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Often, I hear reverse psychology discussed by the person who has cheated or had an affair. They will sometimes pretend to be indignant or justified in their actions in the hopes that the faithful spouse will follow along and not make a big deal about the affair. Needless to say, this approach […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Unfortunately, some wives know or have to interact with the other woman. Perhaps she is a neighbor or former friend. She could even be a coworker with whom there has to be interaction. In whatever way the wife knows her, communications can be absolutely intolerable because the other woman can be quite […]

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By: Katie Lersch: One of the biggest concerns that spouses have about an affair is whether or not it is really and truly over. Some husbands will claim that it is, but their behavior is still a bit suspicious. Other husbands are very open about the fact that they are just not ready or willing […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives understandably want their cheating husbands to feel the pain, uncertainty, and loss that they feel. It is very normal to want revenge when someone cheats on you. Therefore, many people wonder about the “best” or “most effective” way to even the score. Many wives wonder if leaving their husband is […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from folks who have cheated on their spouses. Many are panicked because they now realize that they have put their marriage in jeopardy. Understandably, they are worried that their spouse may leave them. You may hear comments like, “My wife hasn’t packed her bags and left the house yet. […]

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By: Katie Lersch: It is very common for spouses struggling after an affair to feel as if they are still living in turmoil for a long time after they’d hoped that they would be fine. You often give yourself a specific time limit in which to move on. But very often, that time is reached […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Occasionally, people will admit to others (and to themselves) that in some ways, having an affair improved at least some aspects of their lives. With this realization, they aren’t exactly defending the affair, but they can’t deny or denounce these improvements, either. Someone might explain, “this time last year, I was seriously […]

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By: Katie Lersch: It is not uncommon to take a huge hit in self-esteem if your spouse cheats or has an affair. However, some wives experience something even worse – a feeling of complete worthlessness. Not only do these wives not feel as valuable as they used to feel; they do not feel any value […]

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By: Katie Lersch: There is no question that the aftermath of an affair can put a damper on occasions that would otherwise be very happy. I once had a friend tell me that she felt as if the “firsts” after her spouse’s affair were like the “firsts” after a parent’s death. This may sound dramatic. […]

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