Infidelity Articles By Katie Lersch

By: Katie Lersch:  Quite understandably, many people have extremely strong and quick reactions after they discover that their husband has been having an affair.  In fact, many wives are tempted to kick their husband out immediately, even if they are not sure if they want a divorce.  Often, you can’t even think that far ahead. […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Because of my background and my infidelity blogs, I do a lot of research about what most contributes to infidelity and how it manifests itself.  I recently read an article that listed the top 10 countries for infidelity.  Some of the countries on the list surprised me somewhat, while others did not. […]

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I do not believe that every marriage affected by an affair was one that was on the verge of divorce. In fact, statistics prove otherwise. Many people who have affairs later insist that they weren’t unhappy in their marriage and had no intention of leaving it. Nonetheless, I sometimes hear of or from people who […]

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If you were to ask wives to name their biggest fear after their husband’s affair, I would venture to say that the vast majority of them would say repeat cheating.  This is certainly what I would have said.  Most of us live in abject fear of the cheating repeating itself. Because we do all of […]

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I get a lot of emails from wives who are concerned about what sex is going to be like after their husband cheated or had an affair.  Many are trying very hard to save their marriages.  They are doing everything they can to move on in a positive way. But sex can be a whole […]

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Sometimes, I hear from wives (and occasionally husbands too) who tell me that, no matter what, they don’t feel as if the betrayal from the affair will ever be over.  Both the person who cheated and the person who was cheated on can come to think the affair is never really going to be over […]

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I often hear from wives who want reassurance that their husband feels guilt and sorrow after his affair. This is very important to most of us because we know that guilt can be a very motivating emotion. If his guilt is eating him up inside, then perhaps he will hesitate and remember this feeling when […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I admit that before infidelity happened to me, I was one of those people who thought that if my husband ever cheated on me, our marriage would be over.  I felt very strongly about this and I know that there are many people who feel the same way.  I often get comments […]

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by: katie lersch: Sex after an affair is a recurrent theme in some of the correspondence that I get. Many people are looking for guidance as to what is a healthy or advisable time frame. I recently heard from a wife who was grappling with this very issue. It had only been three weeks since […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Most every wife who has ever struggled after an affair knows that thinking about the other woman can take up a huge chunk of your time. You usually have all sorts of questions about her.  You want to know who she is, what she looks like, what makes her tick, and why, […]

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