Tips For Coping When Your Husband Cheated Or Had An Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I’m sometimes contacted by women who are reeling after finding out about their husband’s affair. It’s one of the hardest, most disorienting experiences a person can face. I know because I’ve been there myself. When the person you trusted most takes that trust lightly, it shakes you to your core. You’re dealing […]

How Do I Know? Will My Husband Cheat Again? How Can I Tell

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are struggling with this question: “How do I know my husband won’t cheat again?” It’s one of the most common and painful questions I’m asked — and one that I asked myself for a very long time after my own husband’s affair. I completely understand how […]

Cheating Questions To Ask Your Unfaithful Husband: What You Need And Want To Know About His Cheating

By: Katie Lersch: If you suspect – or already know – that your husband or boyfriend has been unfaithful, I can probably guess what’s running through your mind. Because I’ve been there too. In those early days after discovering my husband’s affair, I was drowning in questions. I replayed every conversation, every strange moment, every […]

Will I Ever Feel the Same About My Husband After He Cheated On Me

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who tell me that everything feels different after their husband’s affair. The marriage feels different. They feel different. And the world around them feels a little less safe, a little less bright. They tell me things like, “I used to think of him as my rock, as […]

The Story Of How I Survived My Husband’s Affair

By: Katie Lersch: Every once in a while, I’ll hear from wives who tell me they’ve read my story – how I survived my husband’s affair and eventually reached a healthier place—and they’ll say something like: “I wish I had your strength. I wish I could forgive the way you did. But I just don’t […]

I Just Feel Numb After My Husband Cheated And Had An Affair

by: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are struggling in the aftermath of their husband’s affair. Most people assume that the first emotions a betrayed wife feels are anger or sadness – and that’s true for many. But not for all. A surprising number of women tell me something very different. They say […]

Why Do Women Forgive the Men Who Cheat on Them?

By: Katie Lersch: I’ll be the first to admit it. Before an affair happened to me, I never thought I’d be one of “those” wives who stayed. I used to think that if my husband ever cheated, that would be it. No discussion. No second chances. But the truth is, you never really know what […]

My Husband Is Tired Of Apologizing For The Affair

I sometimes hear from wives who tell me something like this: “My husband says he’s tired of apologizing for the affair. He says he’s said he’s sorry a thousand times, and yet I still bring it up. Now he says he doesn’t want to spend the rest of his life paying for it.” Or, “He’s […]

How Can He Say He Still Loves Me When He Cheated?

by: katie lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are completely baffled — and honestly, outraged — when their husbands swear they still love them after having an affair. I get comments like: “He swears up and down that he still loves me and that he never stopped loving me. How can that even be […]

Should I Forgive My Husband For Having an Affair?

by: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are trying to answer one of the hardest questions of their lives: Should I forgive my husband for having an affair? Many tell me things like: “I don’t know if I can or should forgive him. While I was home taking care of our kids, he […]