Will My Husband See His Mistress Again After The Affair Ends? How Can I Keep This From Happening?

by: katie lersch:  I often hear from women who are very reluctant to trust their husband again after his affair.  One major issue that frequently crops up is the husband seeing, thinking about, or being with the other woman again after the affair has supposedly ended.  Usually, the husband will deny that this is going […]

I Can’t Shake These Dreams That He Is Cheating Again

It’s almost universal that, at least for a while, the faithful spouse is going to be very paranoid about her spouse cheating again.  He can do or say all of the right things.  His behavior can be above reproach.  The couple might even be in intensive counseling.  But still, the worry is there.  Going through […]

What Percentage Of People Stay Married After One Of Them Has An Affair?

by: katie lersch: I often hear from people who are trying to determine how badly the odds are stacked against them and their marriage after their spouse has had an affair.   And, this is a concern that both husbands and wives share.  Anyone can be on the wrong end of their spouse’s affair and yet […]

Do Cheating Husbands Find Happiness With Their Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  I often hear from wives who truly want to know what their husband legitimately feels during his affair.  Often, they can’t help but notice that he’s acting downright silly with a definite spring in his step.  He’s suddenly humming a little tune while getting ready for work and he’s suddenly nicer to […]

My Husband Can’t Even Look at Me After He Cheated And Had An Affair: Tips And Advice That Might Help

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who indicate that their husband is having a lot of trouble facing them after he has been caught cheating or having an affair. Often, he’s either ashamed, embarrassed, nervous, awkward, humiliated or a combination of all of these things. So, it can be quite difficult to deal […]

Giving The Silent Treatment To The Cheater. Is This Understandable? Is It An Effective Strategy?

By: Katie Lersch:  It’s natural to eventually have not too much to say to your cheating spouse.  Well, let me clarify that.  Many of us have PLENTY to say when we find out about the cheating.  And most of us say plenty (or scream plenty) as soon as the cat is out of the bag.  […]

Why Do Cheaters Think It Is No Big Deal?

I sometimes hear from people who are extremely frustrated.  Not only are they dealing with their spouse or significant other cheating on them. But they are also dealing with the cheating person acting as if their behavior is no big deal.  The cheater may be trying to downplay the behavior and will sometimes even act […]

I Am Married To A Cheating Husband But He Says He Loves Me

Wives who have recently caught their husband cheating are confused on many levels.  But one of the most perplexing things that they face is a husband who insists that he still loves them just the same.  This seems to be a huge contradiction.   Here is a man who cheated on and betrayed you.  If […]

Why Is My Husband Still Seeing The Other Woman When Supposedly Nothing Is Happening?

Many husbands who are caught cheating become flustered and they will agree to every condition that you require.  Yes, they promise, they will go to counseling.  Yes, they insist, they will break off the affair and cut off the other woman.  Yes, they will come right home and be accountable with their time.  And yet, […]

Does A Husband Think His Wife Is Stupid For Staying After He Cheats Or Has An Affair?

by: katie lersch: The decisions that you have to make after your husband cheats or has an affair are often grueling. And perhaps none is as quite as difficult as deciding if you’re going to stay or go.  Taking inventory of how you really feel and what you really want often is not quite as […]