Why Would A Husband Cheat And Tell His Wife Many Years Later? Like Decades Later?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are quite confused as to a confession that has just come from their spouse. He has confessed to cheating, but there’s a catch. The cheating hasn’t just occurred, even though the confession is fresh. There are some people who choose to confess to the cheating years, […]

What Are The Chances That My Husband Will Stay With Me After An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  I think that most of us assume that if our spouse ever cheats on us, we will be out of the marriage before the door can close behind us.  Most of also assume that we would never cheat on our spouse. And yet, statistics prove to us that both of the above […]

After His Affair, We Still Have Sex Sometimes But He Never Hugs Me Or Shows Me Genuine Affection Anymore

By: Katie Lersch: One would assume that the biggest physical marital complaint after an affair is sex. And, to be sure, plenty of couples do have issues with sex after one of them has cheated. But, it might surprise you to know that I just as often hear from people who have resumed their sex […]

My Husband Will Not Leave His Job After His Affair

by: Katie Lersch: It’s no secret that a decent percentage of affairs happen at the work place or at a person’s job.  After all, most of us spend as much time at our desks or at our jobs than we do at home with our spouse.  And, in today’s economy under the pressure to perform […]

How Does A Man Feel After You Tell His Wife About An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  Occasionally, I will hear from people who want to know how a man might feel after he has been “outed” about an affair.  Sometimes, the person asking is a well-meaning friend or family member who just could not stand quietly by and not say anything.  Other times, “the other person” in the […]

Why Did My Husband Continue On With The Affair If He Didn’t Want It?

By: Katie Lersch:  When a husband is caught cheating, he will often try to minimize the affair.  He will try to tell you that the affair didn’t mean much to him.  Or he will say that he was actively ending it. Most wives don’t believe these excuses.  However, some wives do a little digging and […]

My Husband Cheated With A Much Younger Woman. Will He Ever Be Attracted To Me Again?

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from women who are struggling not only to deal with their husband’s infidelity, but who are also trying to process the fact that he cheated with a much younger woman.  This will often cause even more pain and insecurity because the wife fears that she is fighting a battle […]

How To Act Confident Around Your Cheating Husband

By: Katie Lersch: It’s almost universally accepted that a woman who has a cheating husband is a woman who is going to struggle with confidence and self esteem. I have to admit that I HAVE known women who remained steadfast in the knowledge that they were wonderful individuals who did nothing wrong. A neighbor and […]

What Are Reasons That A Man Hesitates Or Refuses To Leave His Family For An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  Sometimes, I hear from women who are either still actively in a relationship with a married man (or who were in a relationship that has just ended because the married man / husband broke it off.)  Some of the time, these women have the goal of stepping up the relationship so that […]

My Husband Is Trying To Make Amends For His Affair, But It’s So Hard To Trust Him

By: Katie Lersch:  I hear from a alot of wives who are dealing with the frustration of a husband who just isn’t trying hard enough to make up for the affair.  So when I hear from someone who has a husband who IS trying, but who is still struggling,  I understand how difficult this might […]