By: Katie Lersch: Many wives who contact me are extremely confused about their husband’s behavior either during or after his affair. Many don’t understand how their husband can have any type of expectation for his wife when he’s thrown away that privilege by his betrayal. One example of what I am talking about is a […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Much of the time, the people who I hear from are those who are the faithful spouse. They are not the ones who cheated in their marriage, but they are dealing with a spouse who has. Sometimes though, I hear from a spouse who is cheating and who is looking for […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I hear from a good amount of conflicted women who are dealing with infidelity in their marriage. Some of them have just found out about the cheating or the affair. And others have known for what feels like way too long. One thing that they have in common, though, are fluctuating feelings […]
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By: Katie Lersch: It’s perfectly natural to want to make a cheating spouse pay. And the word “pay” can have all sorts of connotations. It can mean that you want for him to pay financially. It can mean that you want him to pay emotionally. Some people are very obvious about this. We’ve all known […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Most wives who are dealing with the aftermath of the affair REALLY want to believe that the affair is over. This can be true even when you don’t know if you want to save your marriage. Nearly every wife wants the knowledge that the other woman is gone and out of your […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I find that very few wives ask their husband if he is cheating on the spur of the moment. Many wives give this very careful consideration. After all, no one wants to falsely accuse someone of something as serious as infidelity. Plus, if you are wrong and you accuse your husband of […]
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By: Katie Lersch: It’s almost inevitable that the faithful spouse is going to compare themselves to the other person in the affair. This can be true even when they are otherwise confident and sure of themselves. It’s very normal to ask yourself what the other person had that you didn’t. This is compounded (and even more […]
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By: Katie Lersch: There is often a perception that a man who is having an affair will do everything in his power to keep his wife from finding out. People assume that he will cover his tracks, delete his texts, and perhaps even have a separate phone for his wife and for the other woman. […]
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By: Katie Lersch: If you’ve ever dealt with infidelity, you know that it’s an extremely painful time where you need as much understanding and support as you can get. Many people hesitate to share with others what they are going through, but if they choose to tell a select few, they do so in the […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Ideally, we all want to learn about the affair soon after it began; or if that is not possible, immediately after it is over. We want this because it’s best to deal with the present as it is happening. We want this because facts and memories are most accurate when they have […]
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