Why Do I Feel Almost Obligated To Have Sex After My Husbands’ Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  In the minutes and hours following the discovery of our husband’s affair, many of us can not imagine having sex with our husbands – ever again. It is just a very unsavory thought – having sex knowing that he has recently had it with someone else.  In a round about way, having […]

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My Parents Want To Talk To And Question My Husband After His Affair

By: Katie Lersch:  Sometimes, it would be nice if all you had to deal with was the immediate fall out of the affair.  What I mean by this is that the ideal is just having this be between your husband and yourself.  That isn’t always what happens, though.  Sometimes, other people find out and, even […]

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How Am I Supposed To Act Romantic To My Husband After His Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  There’s no question that after an affair, you can become very aware of what is happening to your marriage.  You pay attention like you haven’t in years.  Because many of us are trying to evaluate if our marriage can be saved, we observe, we analyze, we watch ourselves, and at times, we […]

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Why Would Someone Tell Details Of An Affair Instead Of Lying. Does This Mean They Want To Do The Right Thing? Or Are They Trying To Hurt You?

By: Katie Lersch:  Many wives who are getting ready to confront their husband about his affair anticipate lies, half truths, or out and out denials.  Many assume that even if their husband surprises them and tells some version of the truth, this version is going to be watered down, on meant to diminish the reality […]

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Does Knowing The Details Of The Affair Heal The Wife?

By: Katie Lersch:  Many people believe that having the faithful spouse learn all of the details of the affair is going to be necessary for healing.  You will often hear that spouse say: “I know that it will be hard to hear, but I feel like I need to know everything.”  Sometimes, friends and love […]

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I’m Terrified That My Affair Might Be Exposed

By: Katie Lersch: I believe that most people who are having an affair try very hard not to allow their mind to go to the “what ifs.” Because if they allowed themselves to constantly think about the “what if” questions, then carrying out the affair is going to be very difficult. Examples of these types […]

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My Wife Actually Seems Turned On When I Tell Her About The Affair. But I Think That She’s Just Trying To Trick Me

By: Katie Lersch:  Here are two things that are very common after the discovery of an affair:  the faithful spouse wants details – lots of details.  And the cheating spouse is reluctant to give them.  Why?  He knows that it is going to hurt and anger his spouse.  And if the affair is over, why […]

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My Husband Keeps Writing Me Love Letters After His Affair. But I Don’t Believe A Word He Says

By: Katie Lersch:  Not all wives with cheating husbands have the luxury of experiencing the actions associated with remorse.  What I mean by this is that some wives have a husband who claims that he isn’t sorry or who blames her for his own actions.  These wives may long for the remorseful husband who is […]

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My Affair Partner Dumped Me But It’s Hard To Let Go

By: Katie Lersch: I will admit that most of the time, I write articles for the faithful spouse. I try to offer tips to help people heal from being cheated on. I do that because that is where my perspective lies. I try to see things from all sides, but since I’ve never been the […]

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For How Long Is It Ok To Talk About The Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: It’s very normal to have many conversations about your spouse’s affair over a long period of time. Many people feel that it is their right to ask as many questions as they want for as long as they want. As a woman who has gone through this, I tend to agree. However, […]

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