By: Katie Lersch: Most people assume that when you are dealing with an affair, it is the faithful spouse who feels the most pain. People assume that the cheating spouse is mostly fine while the faithful spouse struggles with the pain and the shock. Although I can tell you that it is very painful to […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives struggle with explaining the depth and accuracy of their emotions to their cheating husband. They want their husband to feel the full blunt of their emotions. They want him to know just how devastating this is. But it can be hard to find the words that he will listen to […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Much of the correspondence that I receive comes from faithful spouses whose marriage partner has cheated on them. They are often looking for a way to heal in the quickest, easiest way possible. Sometimes though, I hear from the spouse who was unfaithful. They are also looking to heal, but their road […]
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By: Katie Lersch: When you are dealing with a cheating spouse, you are often hoping that the two guilty people in this scenario feel deep regret. You want your husband to feel these things because you want for him to end the relationship and vow never to cheat again. You may not care if the […]
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By: Katie Lersch: It is very common for a husband who has just been caught in an affair to get somewhat flustered. He’s often overcome and somewhat overwhelmed with many emotions all at once. Sometimes, this comes on top of struggles that lead him to have the affair in the first place. As a result, […]
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By: Katie Lersch: It’s not unusual for me to get correspondence that has to do with sex after the discovery of an affair. Not surprisingly, the sex can be difficult or awkward. Sometimes, though, it isn’t actually the act of the sex that is the biggest difficulty. It is the intimacy that goes along with […]
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By: Katie Lersch: It’s not uncommon for faithful spouses to complain that their cheating spouse has become a different person. Very common phrases used to describe him are: mean, sullen, distant, and cold. This can be true even if he was a loving, affectionate person before. People often assume that the husband is angry because […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Most of the correspondence that I get comes from husbands or wives who are dealing with an affair within their own marriage. Sometimes though, I hear from the “other woman” or the “other man.” Much of the time, this person is very disappointed because they feel as if they have been lied […]
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By: Katie Lersch: If you have made the mistake of cheating on your spouse, one of the directives that you might have heard from friends, counselors, or your spouse themselves is that you must “hold yourself accountable.” And you can really want to do this because you are willing to do anything to make up […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I don’t think that there is anything worse (at least in terms of your marriage) than knowing that your spouse is cheating on you. However, I’ve had people tell me that having your spouse think that you are cheating or having an affair when you absolutely aren’t is also miserable. For example, […]
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