By: Katie Lersch: One of the most common problems that I hear about is having repetitive questions about the affair. It’s absolutely normal (and quite understandable) to want to gather all of the information that you possibly can. However, there comes a point where you get tired of asking and your cheating spouse becomes tired […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are on the verge of becoming convinced that there is nothing that can be done to move on from a husband’s affair. Usually, they have been trying to recover for months, or even years, and they feel that they have not been making an acceptable amount […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Dealing with an affair in your marriage is difficult during any time of the year. But it can be particularly difficult during the winter holidays, especially if you have children. This is the time of the year when families are expected to get together and when everyone is expected to be happy […]
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By: Katie Lersch: There is an assumption that people who cheat don’t feel all that guilty about it. After all, if there was any guilt, they probably wouldn’t cheat in the first place. If it helps, I can clarify that I hear from some of these folks and I can tell you that many of […]
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By: Katie Lersch: It’s normal to have conflicting emotions after you find out about your husband’s affair. You may go from not wanting him in your line of sight to fantasizing about saving your marriage over the course of only a few hours. One morning you may be considering kicking him out and by night […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Honestly, it isn’t fair that the person who seems to struggle the most after someone is unfaithful is the very person who should suffer the least – the faithful spouse. Often, the faithful spouse took no unfortunate action. They did nothing wrong. And yet, after they learn about the affair, it is […]
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By: Katie Lersch: When there is an affair and another person within your marriage, the relationship that is being prioritized (or which relationship is the most important) can get muddled. Often, the other woman assumes that the husband is no longer intimate with his wife. In order to carry out the affair, it is often […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Without any doubt, I firmly believe that if someone surveyed wives with cheating husbands and asked them what behavior they were most looking for, the answer would be remorse. This makes sense. Because most of us believe that if someone feels true sorrow for their actions then they will be much less […]
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By: Katie Lersch: We’ve probably all heard of couples who live their whole married lives with one or both of them having someone else “on the side.” Many people don’t understand how such a marriage could survive, but some do. However, when it is your own marriage that you are talking about, your judgements about […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Quite frankly, some wives are shocked to find that they still have a marriage at all after their husband’s affair. Many assume that the second they find out about any infidelity whatsoever, they are out of the marriage. But, oh so often, it just isn’t that simple. Sometimes, the husband just will […]
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