By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from the people who are having an affair but who are considering ending it. Many try very hard to find some redeeming factors about the affair. And, even when they are not trying to justify it or make excuses, many are looking to find something positive coming out of […]
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By: Katie Lersch: There is a conception that married men cheat more often than married women. But, the statistics do not bear this out. Women cheat just as often as men. But in my opinion, men are better able to rationalize their affair than are women. Wives who cheat tend to confess more (at least […]
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By: Katie Lerch: It’s very normal to struggle to get your bearings after your spouse’s affair. Even if you are normally someone who can roll with the punches and handle challenges quite well, you may suddenly be surprised to find yourself in a place where you’re struggling to function like you normally would. Some women […]
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By: Katie Lersch: There is a perception from folks who had never had to deal with marital infidelity that people who cheat or have affairs aren’t really all that sorry (except for when they have been caught) and don’t really learn the moral lesson that they should learn. Although I used to have a lot […]
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By: Katie Lersch: If you are a wife who is struggling to find her way after her husband has cheated on her, I feel that you and I are somewhat kindred spirits. I feel pretty certain that I have some understanding of how you feel and I’d be pretty comfortable guessing that one of your […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many people believe that an emotional affair is not as damaging as a physical one. But, wives who have dealt with husbands who have cheated emotionally might stage a good argument that this is not the case. In fact, a very common excuse that a man who has been physically cheating on […]
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By: Katie Lersch: From the correspondence that I get, I find that there is a perception that a man who is cheating on his wife will stop having sex with her. I sometimes get letters from “the other woman” asking me if she should believe a husband who claims that he isn’t being intimate with […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Once you begin to open yourself up to saving your marriage after an affair, you want reassurance that you are not going to leave yourself vulnerable for no good reason. You want to know that there is a good chance that this risk to your heart is all going to be worth […]
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By: Katie Lersch: One of the most common problems that crops up after a spouse has been caught cheating is that of sex. There are many issues that surround this. Often, both people have a hard time resuming their sex life. The faithful spouse may be so turned off by the thought of it and […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Occasionally, I hear from women who are being judged for their reaction to their husband’s cheating. Many wives don’t really want to be around their husband immediately after the cheating is discovered, so they ask him to leave for a while. Of course, when this news gets out, there are people who […]
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