By: Katie Lersch: One of the biggest mysteries to wives after a husband’s affair is what was his thought process right before (or right as) he made the horrible, life changing decision to cheat. Many wives will attempt to solve this mystery by asking their husbands directly about his thought process. This often isn’t very […]
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By: Katie Lersch: There’s no question that it can feel as if your life has been altered if your spouse is unfaithful. You feel like the world you knew no longer exists – if it ever did in the first place. Things look different because you are seeing them through a different lens. Things feel […]
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By: Katie Lersch: If you’ve taken on a spouse’s affair and have won, you really deserve congratulations because I know first hand that this is no easy thing to do. I also know that when many of us are taking this on, we’re thinking to ourselves “ok, just let me get past this next several […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Sometimes, when we find out that our spouse has had an affair, we need to share this with someone. We need to get our feelings out and we long for someone to tell us that it is all going to be OK. We hope that another person can give us sound advice […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Sometimes, when you are a wife and your husband is having an affair, all you can think about is whether or not he is going to choose you and your marriage. This can be true even if you are unsure if you want the same thing. However, once he does chose you, […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I find that when it comes to anger after a spouse’s affair, you tend to feel more angry at one person over another. Sure, you may be angry with both people – meaning both your husband and the other woman. But, typically the brunt of your anger is higher for one person. […]
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By: Katie Lersch: One of the biggest issues to overcome after your husband has an affair is your insecurities about sex. In the best case scenario, your husband assures you that the sex with the other woman wasn’t as great as the sex he has with you. In the worst case scenario, your husband is […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who deeply regret cheating on their spouse and who would give virtually anything if their spouse would give them any hope at all that they could stay together. Some of the time, the faithful spouse refuses to believe that there in any logic in a person cheating […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I know from experience that sometimes in the aftermath of an affair, talking about that dreadful event over and over is probably the most excruciating thing that you can imagine. There are explanations that you don’t want to hear because they are going to give you images that you can’t chase out […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I will admit that I’m always a little surprised when I hear from cheating spouses who are asking for my opinion on what to do to make things right. I’m usually pretty clear that I see things from the perspective of the faithful spouse. Still, sometimes it’s obvious that the cheating spouse […]
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