By: Katie Lersch: Many women see their husbands very differently after he cheats or has an affair. This often involves perceptions of what is on the inside – which is something that you can’t see. Sometimes though, there is a change of perception about what you see on the outside. And this change can come […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are dealing with a husband’s very abrupt change of heart in the after math of his affair. This makes the roller coaster ride that you are already on that much worse. And it makes you wonder when your husband was actually telling the truth – during […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from panicked spouses who don’t know what to do now that their “other woman” and their wife are comparing notes. This often happens because, for whatever reason, the other woman feels compelled to spill the beans. And although the cheating spouse will often do everything in his power to […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I think that most people would agree that the gold standard of recovery after an affair is finding a marriage counselor who can help guide you through a healthy recovery. After all, many of us have the will to move on and to save our marriage. But many of us don’t have […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Much of the time, I hear from people who are trying very hard to pull the details about the affair out of their cheating spouse. Often, this is very challenging. Because once the affair is found out, much of the time, the cheating spouse will clam up, either in an attempt to […]
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By: Katie Lersch: When you know that your husband is having an affair and you see him acting like a child at Christmas time, it can be very painful. You know that his sense of excitement and anticipation has everything to do with the other woman. You worry greatly about this, but you have no […]
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By: Katie Lersch: One of the biggest struggles that many wives have when trying to recover from a husband’s affair is believing that their husband really and truly wants them and their marriage. Sure, he may swear that he now realizes what a mistake he made and wants nothing more than to have his family […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives will agree that little is worse than finding out that your husband is having an affair. However, unfortunately some wives know that there is something worse – having that same cheating husband announce that not only is he having an affair – but he plans to leave his wife in […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I get a decent amount of correspondence from folks asking what questions are important to ask and have answered concerning the affair. Occasionally though, I’ll have someone ask me the atypical question, but the one that is equally as important – what questions should you not ask. An example is the person […]
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By: Katie Lersch: There are normal emotions that you can expect from a wife whose husband has had an affair: shock, betrayal, anger, fear, and insecurity to name just a few. There’s one feeling that you don’t hear a lot about but that I’ve had more than a few people express to me – the […]
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