By: Katie Lersch: It’s not uncommon for the concept of divorce to be mentioned after the discovery of an affair. It is most often mentioned by the faithful spouse, but either spouse can bring it up or can seek it. Sometimes, when the cheating spouse brings up a divorce, the faithful spouse can wonder as […]
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By: Katie Lersch: If you are trying to find your way through all of the details of your spouse’s affair, you likely already know that the truth is important to you. Most of us want to know exactly what we are up against, even if this knowledge is most certainly going to hurt us. However,we […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives who are dealing with their husband’s affair are somewhat clear on the fact that, one day, they would like to be able to offer forgiveness. Many hope that one day, the will just find forgiveness on their doorstep. They might wake up one day and find that the burden and […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Most of us married folks are willing to trust our spouses with most things, even when they have messed up a time or two. We trust our spouse to handle our finances even if he has made a few bad business decisions throughout the course of our marriage. We trust him with […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who believe that they have made a firm decision to stay with their cheating spouse. They haven’t taken this decision lightly and they may have wavered about it. But, in the end, they have decided that the best decision for them is to try to save their […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who are a little put off that their spouse wants to dictate their relationship with the other person during an affair. Often, the person having the affair knows that the relationship is wrong, but they can’t seem to stop it. And although they know that it is […]
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By: Katie Lersch: When you are trying to evaluate what you want to do after your spouse has an affair, you can only make a decision as good as the information that you are getting. Most of the time, much of your information comes from your spouse. Quite understandably, you can have some doubts about […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are under the impression that their husband doesn’t care about their opinion after he has cheated or had an affair. In fact, they think that he could care less as to whether or not they have a very negative opinion about him and his actions. You […]
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By: Katie Lersch: It’s not unusual for me to hear from wives who are dealing with indignant husbands who seem to have no bad feelings about their cheating or affair. There is seemingly no sorrow, no remorse, and no guilt. I might hear from a wife who says: “my husband only feels bad that he […]
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By: Katie Lersch: When your spouse cheats on you, one of the biggest problems you will need to overcome is processing the fact that your spouse had sex with someone else. Not only does this bring about a bunch of unsavory mental images, but it can sabotage your sexual confidence and seriously harm your own […]
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