Is It Better To Lie About The Affair When I Know It’s Going To Hurt My Spouse?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who have ended their affair, want to save their marriage, but are now wondering how many details of the affair they should disclose. In fact, many don’t want to disclose any details about the affair (or even its very existence) because they know that all this is […]

Do I Need To Explain That I’m Ending The Affair To Save My Marriage?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from folks who have made the very important decision to end an affair to save their marriages. And very often, they know in their hearts that this is the right thing to do, but they wonder what obligation they have to the other person with whom they were cheating. […]

I Want A Meeting With My Husband And The Other Woman That He Has Been Cheating With

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who want to confront or talk to the woman that their husband has been cheating with. Some women even take this concept a little further and decide that they want to meet with the other woman AND their husbands all at the same time. Often, they have […]

Do Men Experience A Sense Of Loss After An Affair? If So, Why?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are confused when they can’t help but notice that their husband seems to be almost in mourning after his affair is over. They often can’t ignore the fact that he is moping around the house, is withdrawn, or is so introverted that he’s not interacting with […]

Should I Just Let Him Have His Affair? Here’s My Opinion

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who have tried various approaches to get their husband to end his affair.  And yet, nothing has worked.  Either the husband has refused to end the affair, has begged for more time to make up his mind, or has continued to see the other woman despite his […]

My Husband Is Showing A Lot Of Anger And Even Rage After I Made Him Break Off His Affair. Why? And How Do I Deal With It?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are surprised to see their husband so angry after being forced to break off the affair that he is having. The wives often aren’t sure about the source of his anger and when (or if) it will end. I heard from a wife who said: “I’d […]

My Husband Cheated. Now I Want To Cheat. Why Retaliating Cheating Is A Bad Idea

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who are very tempted to cheat in retaliation because their spouse has cheated on them first. There are often many factors that contribute to this. Sometimes, it is revenge. Other times, there is curiosity as to how it feels to cheat. Finally, many people figure if their […]

Could His Affair Have Made Him Realize He Loves Me?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from women who are wondering if they can or should believe their husband’s claim that his infidelity has made him realize just how much he loves them after all. Some of the wives who hear this claim truly want to believe this. Some of them are being cautioned against […]

My Husband Is Showering Me With Gifts After His Cheating And Affair

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives whose husbands are giving them gifts or presents after he has been caught cheating or having an affair.  Often, the wives want to know if these gifts indicate guilt.  They wonder how they should respond to the gifts and what they mean for their marriage or for […]

My Husband Is Now Saying I’m The Love Of His Life After His Affair

By: Katie Lersch:  I often hear from wives who are trying to evaluate their husband’s claims of everlasting love or sorrow after he has been caught having an affair.  Many wives have their doubts about these claims and have a strong suspicion that he is only making these claims to minimize the fall out from […]

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