I Feel Like Agreeing To Counseling Is Almost Condoning My Husband’s Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who feel as if they are being pressured into counseling after their husband has cheated or had an affair. They are often still reeling and they don’t want to be forced into a quick decision or commitment. I heard from a wife who said: “when I found […]

When Do Feelings Of Love Return After Your Spouse Cheats Or Has An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives who are wondering when they are going to feel loving toward their husband again after he has cheated or had an affair. Many can’t help but to see him differently after the infidelity. And some can’t imagine ever feeling the same way towards him again. I heard […]

I Can’t Stop Crying After My Husband’s Affair And I Feel Like An Idiot

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are overwhelmed or even ashamed by the emotions that they are feeling and displaying after they learn about their husband’s affair.  Many are quite embarrassed and worry that their reaction is stronger or more emotional than what is normal. I heard from a wife who said: […]

I Want To Make The Mistress Leave My Husband Because He Won’t Leave Her. How Can I Do This?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who very much want to manipulate the woman whom their husband has been cheating with.  Usually, their goal is to find some way to get her to leave the relationship.  Very often, the wife has tried almost everything to get the husband to break things off, but, for […]

My Husband Says He’s Not Ready To End His Affair. What Should I Do?

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from women who aren’t sure what to do when their husband is dragging his feet or stalling when it comes to ending his affair.  Many of these wives feel that it might be possible to save their marriage if he would just end things once and for all.  But, […]

My Husband Says The Other Woman Was Just A Diversion. What Does This Mean? Is It Believable?

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives who are trying to process their husband’s odd or silly excuses regarding his cheating or having an affair.  One such excuse is that the other woman meant nothing or was just a diversion or way to pass the time.  I heard from a wife who said: “my […]

I Hate Myself For Taking Back My Cheating Husband

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives who are as angry with themselves as they are with their cheating husbands.  Many have taken him back more than once and while they may have good intentions of stopping the cycle or of making demands on him as a condition of being able to come back, […]

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