My Spouse Is Not Doing Enough To Repair Our Marriage After His Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who are very disappointed with the way that their spouse is handling the aftermath of the affair.  Often, their spouse has promised that they will prove their love and commitment.  However, the reality of this is quite different than the promises.  In short, they haven’t made good […]

I Want To Be On My Own After The Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who feel guilty for wanting to withdrawal from their marriage (at least temporarily) after an affair has occurred. Sometimes, the person who wants to withdrawal is the cheating spouse. But sometimes, it is the faithful spouse. Common comments from the cheating spouse are things like: “I know that my […]

I Feel So Cheap After Having An Affair: Tips And Insights That Might Help

By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from people who are experiencing extremely negative feelings and deep shame after having an affair.  And, many of them are wondering how they can move past this because they know that all of this negativity is really serving no purpose and isn’t help them in any way. I heard […]

My Husband Says He Can’t Cope With All Of The Emotions After His Affair

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are very disappointed that their husband won’t stand up and be accountable after he cheated and had an affair. Instead, he is just becoming frustrated, throwing up his hands, and says he can’t deal with all of this. I heard from wife who said: “my husband […]

Can A Nice Man Be Stupid, Have An Affair, And Still Love His Family?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are struggling with how to classify or view their husband after he cheated or had an affair. Often, they have always thought of their husband as a high quality person with integrity. But now, they are no longer so sure of this assessment. I heard from […]

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