Why Do Husbands Have Affairs With Employees, Like Maids, Nannies, And Secretaries, Etc.

By: Katie Lersch:  There’s no question about it.  Whether you see it on the cover of a tabloid or catch a report of it while flipping through television, there really is no escaping it:  There seems to be a wave of high-powered men caught cheating with their nanny, maid, personal assistant, babysitter, secretary, etc.  Whether […]

My Husband Cheated Twice With The Same Woman. Does This Mean He Loves Her?

By Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives whose husbands have cheated more than once. This is bad enough. But sometimes, he is cheating with the same woman multiple times. I recently heard from a wife who said in part: “I was more than devastated the first time I found out about my husband’s affair.  […]

My Husband Doesn’t Want To Leave After His Affair

By: Katie Lersch:  Quite understandably, many people have extremely strong and quick reactions after they discover that their husband has been having an affair.  In fact, many wives are tempted to kick their husband out immediately, even if they are not sure if they want a divorce.  Often, you can’t even think that far ahead. […]

Infidelity By Country: Can The Highest Countries For Cheating Teach Us Anything About Adultery Or Affairs?

By: Katie Lersch: Because of my background and my infidelity blogs, I do a lot of research about what most contributes to infidelity and how it manifests itself.  I recently read an article that listed the top 10 countries for infidelity.  Some of the countries on the list surprised me somewhat, while others did not. […]

Is Having An Affair Better Than Getting Divorced?

I do not believe that every marriage affected by an affair was one that was on the verge of divorce. In fact, statistics prove otherwise. Many people who have affairs later insist that they weren’t unhappy in their marriage and had no intention of leaving it. Nonetheless, I sometimes hear of or from people who […]

Sabotaging A Husband’s Attempt To Repeat Cheat. Should You Try?

If you were to ask wives to name their biggest fear after their husband’s affair, I would venture to say that the vast majority of them would say repeat cheating.  This is certainly what I would have said.  Most of us live in abject fear of the cheating repeating itself. Because we do all of […]