Remorse Versus Shame In Affair Recovery

Many wives dealing with infidelity want their cheating husbands to feel the whole gauntlet of negative emotions – shame, embarrassment, guilt, and remorse.  They want for him to be very displeased with himself and horrified by behaviors.  However, once everyone begins to focus on recovery, the wife begins to wonder which of these emotions are […]

If I Threaten To Tell My Kids About My Spouse’s Affair, Will He Break It Off?

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives struggle with more than one issue when their husband has an affair. If his cheating isn’t bad enough, some husbands are reluctant to end it. To these husbands’ credit, at least they aren’t lying and promising that the affair is over when they know that it is not. Instead, they […]

My Husband Went To Live With The Other Woman When I Kicked Him Out But Now He Wants Me Back

By: Katie Lersch: Sometimes, when a wife catches her husband having an affair, she very understandably kicks him out of the house. This is often an intuitive response that the wife does not consider very deeply or for very long. She only knows that she wants him out of her site immediately. Because of her […]

I Kicked My Husband Out Because He Cheated And Had An Affair. Should I Ignore Him Now?

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives are so angry about their husband’s infidelity, that they can’t stand the sight of him or the thought of him living under the same roof. So, they kick him out of the house. But, with that accomplished, many wonder what should happen afterward. They aren’t sure if they should continue […]