Your Wedding Anniversary After The Affair Or Infidelity

By: Katie Lersch: There is no question that the aftermath of an affair can put a damper on occasions that would otherwise be very happy. I once had a friend tell me that she felt as if the “firsts” after her spouse’s affair were like the “firsts” after a parent’s death. This may sound dramatic. […]

Is It Possible That My Husband Isn’t Attracted To Me Because Of His Guilt Over His Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives hope for a cheating husband who makes a near-fool of himself to get in her good graces after an affair. In reality, many wives get much less than this. Many get husbands who are stand-offish, distant, and cold. Unfortunately, many husbands are LESS demonstrative and affectionate after they’ve been caught […]

Why Am I So Afraid To Leave My Cheating Spouse?

By: Katie Lersch: Many of us define our reaction to cheating before it ever happens to us. We tell ourselves (and our husband) that if he ever cheats, we are leaving. We claim that we will be out the door so fast his head will spin. However, when cheating becomes a reality, we stay put. […]