How Cheating Negatively Affects Both The Faithful And Unfaithful Spouse

Most people believe that they have a good idea of how cheating might affect the faithful spouse. For example, if a husband has cheated on his wife, many people assume that the wife will become angry, bitter, and unable to let go of her anger. And, in some cases, this is true – at least […]

My Spouse Blames His Infidelity On His Newly Diagnosed Bipolar Disorder. Is This Just An Excuse?

I often hear from spouses who are hearing various excuses as to why their spouse cheated or had an affair. Most of the time, the excuses are somewhat questionable. However, sometimes a spouse may claim a medical excuse for cheating, which can make the faithful spouse re-evaluate her stance. One example is having a mental […]

A Letter Forgiving the Other Woman: Should You Write It? Should You Send It?

I sometimes hear from wives who are considering unconventional ways to heal after their husband has an affair. One example is writing a letter forgiving the other woman. A wife might explain, “I am not trying to downplay my husband’s affair. It was so painful, and I am not over it. But I am trying […]

After I Caught Him Cheating, My Husband Avoids Me. Why? What Can I Do About It?

I hear from some wives who want to know what to say or how to talk to their husband after his infidelity. However, some wives don’t have this issue because their husbands are avoiding them. Once the affair was discovered, he exited the situation and has been absent ever since. Understandably, this is extremely frustrating. […]

What Do People Think of The Other Woman?

It’s easy to tell that this blog caters to wives who are dealing with infidelity. That is my experience, so that is the viewpoint from which I write. It’s very easy for me to write for these wives because I have been there and I know how they feel. However, I have dialogued with the […]