He Cheated. I Mostly Forgave Him. And Now He Acts Like I Did Something Wrong.

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives dealing with infidelity believe that if they can get to a place of forgiveness, then complete healing will follow, and they can move on with their lives. While forgiveness can feel incredibly freeing and can be helpful to your marriage, it doesn’t always fix everything. Many wives are surprised to […]

How Long Should It Take To Let Go Of An Affair? Why Can’t My Spouse Let Go?

The time frame for letting go of an affair is a concern that I hear from people on both sides of the issue. For example, I sometimes hear from the spouse who was cheated on. Sometimes, they can’t help but notice that the spouse who cheated appears not to have totally “let go” of the […]

Can My Marriage Survive If My Husband Still Has Contact With The Woman He Cheated On Me With?

by: katie lersch:  It goes without saying that the ideal when you’re trying to save your marriage after infidelity or an affair is for the spouse who cheated to cut off all contact or ties with the other person.  It’s difficult enough to save your marriage when it’s only the two of you, but this […]

I’ll Never Forget The Look On My Husband’s Face When I Caught Him Cheating. I’m Afraid That This Means I’ll Never Truly Be Able To Heal And Move On.

By: Katie Lersch: Few moments as frozen in time as when a wife finds out that her husband has been unfaithful. For many of us, that image is embedded in our brains forever. And it’s an ugly memory – one that we’d very much like to forget. Many wives wonder if being repeatedly plagued and […]

How Can A Man Who Loves His Wife Have An Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are really struggling with the reality that their husband has had an affair. Often, the hardest part for them is not the betrayal itself, but the circumstances that preceded the betrayal. Many of these wives are so confused because they had good marriages and loving husbands. […]

My Husband Says He Does Not Think About His Affair Anymore. How Is This Possible?

by: katie lersch: Many women who contact me confess that they often wonder just how much their husband thinks about the other woman once the affair is over.  Many husbands will downplay this or deny that he ever thinks about her.  And many of the wives have a very hard time believing this. I recently […]