I Believe That My Husband Is Sorry He Hurt Me With His Cheating, But Am Not Sure That He’s Sorry About The Affair. I Think He Only Regrets The Consequences

By: Katie Lersch: Remorse is one place where wives dealing with unfaithful husbands tend to hyper-focus. It is challenging to forgive under these circumstances. But it is almost impossible to forgive when your husband is indignant that he did nothing wrong. Often, it is difficult to determine just how sorry a husband is when his […]

Why Is My Spouse Being So Mean To Me After Cheating?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from spouses who are so upset that their cheating spouse is not only not showing remorse and guilt, they are being downright hateful and mean. This can leave the faithful spouse wondering what they have done to deserve this kind of treatment, especially since they weren’t the one who […]

Do Men Really Love The Mistress Or The Other Woman? Or Are They Just Infatuated?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are so hurt because their husband thinks that he is in love with the other woman or the mistress. And the wife sometimes has to begrudgingly admit that she can’t help but notice a change in her husband. He seems more carefree or optimistic. His outlook […]

Limerence And Cheating Husbands And Affairs. What Is The Connection? How Should You Handle A Limerence Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: Dealing with a cheating spouse isn’t easy, no matter the circumstances. However, some wives feel strongly that their experience is worse than that of others. These wives have a husband who is seemingly so obsessed with the other woman that he refuses to listen to reason. Many of these wives theorize that […]

My Husband Chose Me Over The Other Woman. So Why Don’t I Feel Like I’ve Won?

by: katie lersch:  I often hear from wives whose main goal for the short term is getting their husband away from the woman that he is cheating or having an affair with. Many give their husband’s ultimatums and flat out tell him that he has to make a choice between his wife and the other […]

Why Would My Cheating Husband Want To Stay With Me?

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives doubt the sincerity of what their husband is saying after he cheated or had an affair. This can especially be true when the husband is insisting that he wants to stay in or save the marriage when his previous actions have completely contradicted his claims. The wife can wonder if […]