How Do I Know For Sure My Spouse is Cheating?

By: Katie Lersch: Many faithful spouses start out feeling that something is off with their spouse. He’s acting weird. They notice that he is doing things that he wouldn’t normally do and saying things that he wouldn’t normally say. So for a while, many faithful spouses watch and wait.   Eventually, they may see some text […]

My Husband Had an Affair, and Now He’s Claiming to Be Impotent

By: Katie Lersch: Sex can be one of the most awkward parts of affair recovery, and that awkwardness can happen even if things otherwise go relatively okay. But married couples trying to recover from an affair who have a bad sexual experience can feel even more pain and doubt than before. And they can start […]

Some Unexpected Effects You Might Experience When Your Spouse Cheats or Has an Affair

By: Katie Lersch: Most faithful spouses anticipate severe marital challenges after they learn their spouse has cheated or had an affair. Many understand the need to navigate trust issues and resentment toward their spouse. These effects are known to most people.   But I find that many faithful spouses are surprised at some unanticipated effects popping […]

How Do I React if My Lover’s Spouse Confronts Me About the Affair?

By: Katie Lersch: I must offer fair disclosure. Most of the time, I write my articles for the faithful spouse. That is the demographic who most often reads my articles, and those are the shoes that I myself have been in. However, sometimes when I look over the analytics for this blog, I see that […]