Infidelity Articles By Katie Lersch

By: Katie Lersch: Restoring intimacy is one of the biggest concerns that wives have during affair recovery.  Many worry that their marriage will never feel special or particularly bonded again.  How could it when a spouse has thrown it all away over someone he barely knew? A wife in this situation might say, “I have […]

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Many wives dealing with infidelity want their cheating husbands to feel the whole gauntlet of negative emotions – shame, embarrassment, guilt, and remorse.  They want for him to be very displeased with himself and horrified by behaviors.  However, once everyone begins to focus on recovery, the wife begins to wonder which of these emotions are […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives struggle with more than one issue when their husband has an affair. If his cheating isn’t bad enough, some husbands are reluctant to end it. To these husbands’ credit, at least they aren’t lying and promising that the affair is over when they know that it is not. Instead, they […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Sometimes, when a wife catches her husband having an affair, she very understandably kicks him out of the house. This is often an intuitive response that the wife does not consider very deeply or for very long. She only knows that she wants him out of her site immediately. Because of her […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives are so angry about their husband’s infidelity, that they can’t stand the sight of him or the thought of him living under the same roof. So, they kick him out of the house. But, with that accomplished, many wonder what should happen afterward. They aren’t sure if they should continue […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  For many wives, the one thing that might make an affair bearable is a husband who is immediately remorseful and who commits to doing whatever he needs to do in order to stay married. There is still the aftermath of the affair to contend with, but at least you are not having […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives who are dealing with a cheating husband who seems remorseful and intent on staying in the marriage question his motives. Theoretically, he can say – and even do – all the right things. But of course, wives still have their doubts. They wonder how if the marriage was so important […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  If you are a faithful wife who is dealing with a cheating husband, you are going to understand me when I say that how your husband describes, reacts to, and postures about the other woman are vitally important.  Once the affair is out in the open, the wife watches and listens to […]

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By: Katie Lersch: It is very common for a spouse who suspects cheating to wonder if they are losing their mind. Even if they have at least some evidence, the cheating spouse will often be completely indignant in response. They will do everything in their power to make the faithful spouse seem overly suspicious, paranoid, […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  Most of the audience that comes to this blog consists of faithful spouses who are trying to cope with infidelity.  These folks did not cheat and, as best as they can, they are trying to heal.  However, there is a small audience of people who WISH that they had remained faithful.  They […]

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