Infidelity Articles By Katie Lersch

By: Katie Lersch:  I often hear from wives who truly want to know what their husband legitimately feels during his affair.  Often, they can’t help but notice that he’s acting downright silly with a definite spring in his step.  He’s suddenly humming a little tune while getting ready for work and he’s suddenly nicer to […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who indicate that their husband is having a lot of trouble facing them after he has been caught cheating or having an affair. Often, he’s either ashamed, embarrassed, nervous, awkward, humiliated or a combination of all of these things. So, it can be quite difficult to deal […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  It’s natural to eventually have not too much to say to your cheating spouse.  Well, let me clarify that.  Many of us have PLENTY to say when we find out about the cheating.  And most of us say plenty (or scream plenty) as soon as the cat is out of the bag.  […]

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I sometimes hear from people who are extremely frustrated.  Not only are they dealing with their spouse or significant other cheating on them. But they are also dealing with the cheating person acting as if their behavior is no big deal.  The cheater may be trying to downplay the behavior and will sometimes even act […]

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by: katie lersch: I often hear from wives who are having serious self esteem issues after their husband has an affair. Many no longer feel attractive, sexy, or self assured. Many admit that they constantly compare themselves to other women. Sometimes, this means comparing yourself to “the other woman”  (meaning that you are comparing yourself […]

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Wives who have recently caught their husband cheating are confused on many levels.  But one of the most perplexing things that they face is a husband who insists that he still loves them just the same.  This seems to be a huge contradiction.   Here is a man who cheated on and betrayed you.  If […]

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Many husbands who are caught cheating become flustered and they will agree to every condition that you require.  Yes, they promise, they will go to counseling.  Yes, they insist, they will break off the affair and cut off the other woman.  Yes, they will come right home and be accountable with their time.  And yet, […]

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by: katie lersch: The decisions that you have to make after your husband cheats or has an affair are often grueling. And perhaps none is as quite as difficult as deciding if you’re going to stay or go.  Taking inventory of how you really feel and what you really want often is not quite as […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  I recently heard from a wife who wasn’t sure what made her more mad at her husband – the fact that he’d had an affair or his attitude following the wife finding out about the same.  As she described it, her husband was acting defensive and cold and only apologized once initially.  […]

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I sometimes hear from wives who have no idea how they will ever get their husband to forgive their affair. They are more sorry than they can ever express. And they would do anything to earn his forgiveness. But it seems that the affair has challenged his masculinity – and he finds that sin almost […]

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