Infidelity Articles By Katie Lersch

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who feel as if they will never be truly free from an affair that is in the past.  Often, they have tried everything that they know to do to make sure that their spouse can heal and move on.  But it doesn’t happen, even many years later. I […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Believe it or not, after the shock, grief, and pain of an affair or cheating begin to wane, deep down, many people want to save the relationship. Often, there is still a lot of love, affection, and history left between you, and it is difficult to throw all of that away over […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives dealing with the devastating aftermath of an affair. And one of the most common but heartbreaking questions I hear is this: “What if he really loved her? It almost looks like he is mourning the loss of her.” If you’re asking yourself this question, I want you […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives who are truly perplexed by their reaction to hearing the details of their husband’s affair.  Usually, they will tell you that they expected to be not only furious, but totally turned off by their husband.  And often, no one is more shocked than them when this turns […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I hear from a lot of women who feel completely blindsided when their husband cheats — but there’s a unique kind of hurt when the betrayal follows a very specific shift: He lost weight. He got in shape. He started working out, and then he had an affair. And now you’re left […]

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By: Katie Lersch: One of the most common — and most painful — struggles after infidelity is this: “I keep seeing it in my head. The images of them together. I try not to, but it just shows up, like a movie I didn’t ask to watch.” I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  I get this question quite often: “How do I know if my husband is still thinking about the affair? What if he hasn’t really moved on from it — even though he claims that he has?” If you’re asking this, you’re not alone. It’s incredibly common — especially in the early months […]

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By Katie Lersch: I hear this question quite often from both wives and mistresses. Often, I will have women who cheated with married men write me and say things like “the guy who told me that his marriage was torture and that he had never adored someone the way he adores me. But then, he […]

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Comments Off on How Can He Say The Affair Meant Nothing? Is It A Lie? Or The Truth?

By: Katie Lersch: It’s one of the most painful, lingering wounds after infidelity — the feeling that you just weren’t “enough.” Maybe you’ve seen her. Maybe you haven’t. But you imagine her anyway. Prettier. Thinner. Younger. More exciting. More confident. More Adventurous. Less stressed. Less you. And even if your husband says the affair had […]

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By Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who can’t get their husbands to be honest about his affair.   Sometimes, the husband has admitted to cheating but he’s trying to diminish or downplay the severity of it.  Other times, the husband is flat out denying he had an affair even though the wife knows that […]

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