My Husband Says He Still Loves Me After His Affair. Can I Trust This?

By: Katie Lersch: Even typing the title of this article brings back a wave of emotion for me. If you’ve found your way here, my heart goes out to you, because I know you’re probably carrying a heavy mix of pain, confusion, frustration, and the deep, disorienting sense of betrayal that comes after discovering your […]

How Do You Forgive a Cheating Husband? How Can You?

By: Katie Lersch: If you’ve found this article, I have no doubt about the pain that you’re in right now. I truly understand it. I remember the shock, the disbelief, and the crushing sense of betrayal that came when I learned my own husband had been unfaithful. It feels like someone has punched you in […]

Why Would My Cheating Husband Want To Stay With Me?

By: Katie Lersch: Many wives doubt the sincerity of what their husband is saying after he cheated or had an affair. This can especially be true when the husband is insisting that he wants to stay in or save the marriage when his previous actions have completely contradicted his claims. The wife can wonder if […]

Tips For Healing a Marriage After an Affair – Based On How I Healed My Marriage And You Can Too

By: Katie Lersch: I often share my story of how I healed my marriage after my husband’s affair – not because it was easy, but because I want other women to know that it can be done. When I first found out, I honestly couldn’t imagine that I’d ever see my husband – or our […]

Can I Trust My Husband When He’s Not Been Faithful To Me?

By: Katie Lersh: When women ask me, “Can I trust my husband again after he’s been unfaithful?” I know they’re really asking two deeper questions. What they really want to know is: Will my husband cheat on me again if I choose to trust him now? Does he even deserve my trust after betraying me, […]

Getting Over an Affair to Save Your Marriage

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from both husbands and wives who want to know the same thing: “How do I get over the affair so I can move forward?” Sometimes they mean they want to save the marriage. Other times, they just want to stop feeling the pain every single day. But here’s the […]

How to Deal With Infidelity in a Marriage

By: Katie Lersch: If you’ve found this article, I have to assume that you either strongly suspect or already know that your spouse has had an affair. If that’s true, I’m so sorry. I know exactly how devastating this feels – because I’ve been there too. You’re likely feeling a confusing storm of emotions right […]

How Do You Get The Trust Back After Cheating Or An Affair? Here’s Some Tips That Might Help To Rebuild The Trust

By: Katie Lersch: If I had to name one thing that most often dooms a marriage after an affair, it wouldn’t necessarily be the cheating itself. It would be the couple’s inability to rebuild trust in a deep, lasting way. Even when both people truly want to move on – even when forgiveness has been […]

My Husband Keeps Saying “I’m Sorry” After His Cheating And Affair, But That’s Just Not Enough

By: Katie Lersch: I once heard from a wife who was struggling deeply after her husband’s affair. She was trying very hard to hold things together, but one issue kept coming up again and again: her husband’s belief that saying he was “sorry” should somehow be enough to make everything go away. She told me, […]

Ways To Win Your Husband Back From His Mistress

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are in one of the most painful positions imaginable. They know without a doubt that their husband has cheated and is still involved with the other woman. These wives aren’t confused about what’s happened. They don’t need proof. What they want – more than anything – […]