By: Katie Lersch: It can be a relief when your husband says the words you want to hear after you catch him cheating or having an affair. Despite your shock, pain, and anger, it can be reassuring to hear him say that he is sorry, that he will never cheat again, and that he will […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are so frustrated by their husband’s “confusion” after he has been caught cheating or having an affair. Often, the wives expect or hope that he is going to apologize profusely and immediately begin to attempt to make amends. But this isn’t always what happens. Sometimes, the […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Believe it or not, some of the visitors to this blog are cheating spouses. Yes, I write from the perspective of the faithful spouse. But I’ve had cheating spouses tell me that some of my articles help provide them with perspective, as well as guidance on how to move forward. Sometimes, I […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many spouses suspect their spouse of cheating before they actually catch him. Sometimes, there are both subtle and not-so-subtle clues along the way. Sometimes, the cheating spouse is actually caught early on, but he finds a way to convincingly explain himself. So while he may have already been cheating, the faithful spouse […]
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By: Katie Lersch: It’s very common to hear from wives who feel like a “loser” or a “failure” after their husband cheats or has an affair. Most of these wives intellectually understand that they are not the spouse who has failed or has fallen short. But their hears are not listening to their heads. One […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Most of the traffic that I get on this site are women who are dealing with a husband’s cheating or affair. However, there are sometimes unfaithful husbands who find their way here because they are looking for information to help them make things right. Admittedly, a few of them are just looking […]
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Understandably, many wives lash out when they find out that their husband has an affair. They are angry. They are afraid. And they feel as if they are at the mercy of their circumstances. So, to regain a sense of control, they make ultimatums. You can’t blame them for immediately proclaiming that their husband must […]
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Wives whose cheating husbands are non-committal or wishy-washy face additional challenges on top of the affair. Not only are these wives dealing with the aftermath of the cheating, but many of them also must deal with an uncertain future, since their husband doesn’t want to move out, but also won’t fully commit to saving the […]
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By: Katie Lersch: It’s very common for me to hear from wives who are struggling to explain to their husbands just how much his cheating or affair hurt them and caused them pain. But often, their husband doesn’t react in the way that they were hoping for and they are looking for a way to […]
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I think it is fair to say that sometimes, both spouses crave normalcy after one of them has been caught cheating or having an affair. However, the definition of “normal” can vary between the spouses. Often, the faithful spouse sees normalcy as the ability to trust and feel safe again. And the cheating spouse craves […]
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