By: Katie Lersch: Wives can feel as if they have lost many things after their husband’s affair. Often you feel as if you’ve lost a little bit of your self esteem, your confidence in your marriage and your husband, and your belief that you are perceptive enough to know what’s going on. Another loss that […]
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By: Katie Lersch: It can be daunting to attempt to save your marriage after an affair. You may want to do it more than anything, but even the most optimistic and loyal people will have doubts. Even when the affair is over, it’s very hard to restore the trust and to believe that your spouse […]
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I often hear from wives who do not understand the division between the man who is begging them not to not to leave him because of his affair and the man who risked literally everything in order to have that same affair. The wife often wracks her brain in order to figure out what his […]
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I sometimes hear from people who willingly ended their affair because deep down, they knew that this was the right thing to do. Many of them truly do want to save their marriages and to maintain their families. So, they are at peace with the decision to end things and they know that it was […]
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I recently heard from someone who was trying to figure out why their affair partner had “ghosted” them. The gist of the communication was something like this, “I have been seeing this married man for about three months. I thought that things were going wonderfully. We texted and emailed constantly and were able to actually […]
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I often hear from wives who are understandably extremely upset to find out that their husband has been cheating. Unfortunately, many place at least some of the blame on themselves: Why didn’t they see it? Were they not a good wife? Is there something wrong with them that contributed to a seemingly good man cheating? […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from women who are just beginning to deal with the aftermath of a husband’s affair. They are often trying to formulate the most appropriate questions that are going to help them determine why their husband cheated, what is the state of their marriage today, and what are the chances […]
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I sometimes hear from women who have unfortunately been having an affair with a married man. Many of them have attempted to entice him to leave his wife (or at least to give them some reassurances that there is a future ahead.) The husband may be telling this other woman that he cares for her. […]
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By: katie lersch: I often hear from wives who live in constant fear that they will have to deal with another round of cheating or yet another affair. Many times, their husband has repeatedly assured them that they have nothing to worry about and that he’ll never cheat again. But of course, that’s a hard […]
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I sometimes hear from wives who are devastated not only by their husband’s cheating or affair, but also by the loss of intimacy and physical contact. For whatever reason, sex has been taken off the table. So at a time when a wife is already hurt and confused, she’s now struggling with the fact that […]
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