Infidelity Articles By Katie Lersch

by: katie lersch:  I’ve had people tell me that there are two camps of cheaters, as follows: 1. those who want out of their relationship (or are not fully invested in it) and therefore don’t care if they get caught; and 2. those who hope and pray that they never get caught because they are […]

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By: Katie Lerch: It’s easy to understand why having sex after your spouse has had an affair can be a very awkward experience.  It can be nearly impossible to not to think about your spouse having sex with someone else. It’s impossible not to worry about comparisons as well as to worry about whether both […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives who are overwhelmed or even ashamed by the emotions that they are feeling and displaying after they learn about their husband’s affair.  Many are quite embarrassed and worry that their reaction is stronger or more emotional than what is normal. A wife might say: “I feel like […]

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By: Katie Lersch: There is a real assumption that once a married man cheats, he has checked out of his marriage and is no longer connected to his wife. So, people often assume that a man who would cheat on his wife certainly doesn’t feel sincere and true love for that same wife. Unsurprisingly, it […]

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by: katie lersch: Many wives who are trying to save their marriages after a husband’s affair run into some issues along the way. Many are still shocked, furious, and struggling but are still trying very hard to place the focus on moving forward. Although their husbands might claim that they too are committed, it can […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives who feel absolute hatred for the woman with whom their husband cheated. The wives often think that most of their marital problems are all this woman’s fault.  And it can be hard to argue with this when the marriage was moving along just fine until she came along.  Many wives […]

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by: katie lersch: It’s interesting that a lot of the women who write to me are more worried about their husband’s emotional feelings about the woman with whom he’s cheating (we’ll call her “the mistress” in this article) than they are about how he feels about her physically.  Many tell me things like “I can deal […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Some wives aren’t sure what course of action they want to take after they discover that their husband has had an affair. Often, they are so angry that they are almost paralyzed. Of course, it’s very common for your first inclination to be to kick him right out. It’s normal to be […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  There’s no question about it.  Whether you see it on the cover of a tabloid or catch a report of it while flipping through television, there really is no escaping it:  There seems to be a wave of high-powered men caught cheating with their nanny, maid, personal assistant, babysitter, secretary, etc.  Whether […]

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By Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives whose husbands have cheated more than once. This is bad enough. But sometimes, he is cheating with the same woman multiple times. I recently heard from a wife who said in part: “I was more than devastated the first time I found out about my husband’s affair.  […]

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