Infidelity Articles By Katie Lersch

By: Katie Lersch: I hear this fear so often from wives. In fact, I’d say it’s probably the number one thing that keeps many women from moving forward after their husband’s affair. They’ll tell me things like: “I want to trust him. I’d like to save the marriage. But what if he does it again? I’m […]

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By: Katiel Lersch: I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard something like this from wives: “I’ve always thought of myself as a strong, confident woman. I knew my worth. I believed I would never put up with cheating. I even told myself that if my husband was ever unfaithful, I’d walk away without […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from people who really were trying to do the right and honorable thing when they told their spouse they cheated. They usually felt a lot of guilt, didn’t want the lie hanging between them and their spouse, and cared enough about their marriage to bring the cheating out there […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from people who want to know how to “work things out” after a spouse has cheated. Sometimes it’s the person who cheated who’s desperate to fix things. Sometimes it’s the faithful spouse who’s clinging to the hope of saving the marriage. And in both cases, there’s usually a big […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from women who are completely torn about how to treat their husbands after discovering an affair. You’d think this would be straightforward—he cheated, so of course you’re angry—but in reality, it’s a whole lot more complicated than that. The truth is, you’re probably feeling a hundred different emotions at […]

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By: Katie Lersch I once heard from a wife who’s still raw from the shock of her husband’s affair. Her voice cracked when she told me: “My husband cheated on me for a couple of months last year. I just found out. He swears he never stopped loving me—even while it was happening. He says […]

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By: Katie Lersch: One of the things I hear the most from faithful spouses who are reeling after an affair is this: “I just don’t feel close to him anymore. Not the way we used to. We could practically read each other’s minds. I could look at him and know what he was thinking. Now? […]

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By: Katie Lersch One of the most heartbreaking and confusing things I hear from wives—and believe me, I hear it often—is something along the lines of: “We were happy. Things were good between us. There were no major red flags. So how could he cheat?” And sometimes, I hear almost the exact same thing from […]

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By Katie Lersch: I sometimes speak with wives who are stunned, furious, hurt, and more than a little disgusted by how their husbands are behaving after having an affair. Sometimes the affair is still happening. Other times, it’s ended, but the fallout is still very fresh. And often, these women say things like: “When is […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  I sometimes hear from wives who are struggling greatly after a husband’s cheating, infidelity, or affair.  I understand how devastating this can feel.  You can feel as if  your entire married life was a lie.  You can feel like the love and commitment was all one sided.  And you wonder how you […]

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