My Husband Had An Affair But Is Claiming I’m All He Ever Wanted. Is This A Lie?

By: Katie Lersch: Many people assume that when a spouse cheats, he is ready to end his marriage (or is at least is neutral about it. ) The assumption is that he’s no longer invested. Sure, he might make pitiful attempts to hide the affair, but he will not go out of his way to fight for the […]

What Happens When A Cheater Realizes He Made A Mistake:  What Reactions Or Behaviors Might You See?

By: Katie Lersch: Finding out your spouse has cheated is hard enough without him justifying his actions or pretending he did nothing wrong.  Unfortunately, since it is human nature to want to defend oneself (especially with a colossal mistake like cheating) this might be what you get. At least initially, you may have an indignant […]

10 Ways Discovering An Affair (Or Being Cheated On) Changes You

By: Katie Lersch: Although the target audience of this article is the spouse who cheated, I suspect the faithful spouse is reading it. Why? Because it is usually the faithful spouse who seeks the information to help her heal. The cheating spouse doesn’t necessarily want to read about a topic that hits so close to home. […]

Why Do More People Have Affairs In January Or Around New Years?

By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes notice a spike in traffic for this site beginning in January. I’ve made no changes on my end to cause this change, but I think I know why it is happening. Sites and apps that facilitate affairs admit that there is a huge uptick in traffic in January of every […]

After An Affair Can Your Marriage Ever Feel Special Again?

By: Katie Lersch: Restoring intimacy is one of the biggest concerns that wives have during affair recovery.  Many worry that their marriage will never feel special or particularly bonded again.  How could it when a spouse has thrown it all away over someone he barely knew? A wife in this situation might say, “I have […]