The Brain Tricks and Mind Games People Use to Rationalize An Affair or Infidelity: Understanding Cognitive Dissonance

One of the most common things that faithful spouses struggle to understand is what their cheating spouse was thinking while being unfaithful. If you polled a large, random group of people, most of those people would tell you that cheating is wrong. Yet, statistics indicate that plenty of married people not only cheat, but then […]

Can Anxiety Cause Infidelity or An Affair? Can An Affair Cause Anxiety?

It’s normal to look for a concrete and believable reason that your spouse cheated or had an affair. Sometimes, your spouse will insist he doesn’t know why he cheated. Other times, he will very willingly offer up a reason. Anxiety is sometimes used as justification for the cheating. Understandably, the faithful spouse can question if […]

How Do Cheating Husbands Treat Their Affair Partner Or The Other Woman?

Many faithful wives spend a lot of time thinking about their husband’s affair. Understandably, these wives have questions, many of which share a common theme. The wives want to know which feelings were the foundation of the affair. To that end, wives wonder how their husband treated the other woman. A wife might ask questions […]

Obsessive Thoughts After A Husband’s Affair? Tips That Might Help

No matter what the status of your mental health or thought process was before your husband’s affair, chances are you are going to notice significant changes after it. One example that some wives experience is obsessive thinking or intrusive negative thoughts. A wife might explain, “I’ve always been pretty strong mentally, but since I have […]