By: Katie Lersch: It’s not unusual to have to endure a change in living arrangements after the discovery of a marital affair – at least temporarily. Often, emotions and anger run very high, and it’s just not healthy for the couple to be in close quarters during the aftermath of discovery. Sometimes, this is a […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Picking up the pieces after infidelity is difficult, no matter the circumstances. However, when you have a spouse who is showing no remorse or regret for his actions, it is arguably much more difficult to move forward. After all, there are many obstacles that couples must overcome – restoring the trust, maintaining […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Common sense tells you that you may have a hard time trusting in your husband after you catch him cheating or having an affair. After all, his behavior has proven that, in the right circumstances, he will lie to and betray you. But you may not have anticipated just how bad this […]
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By Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who can’t get their husbands to be honest about his affair. Sometimes, the husband has admitted to cheating but he’s trying to diminish or downplay the severity of it. Other times, the husband is flat out denying he had an affair even though the wife knows that […]
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By: Katie Lerch: Of all the topics that come up after one spouse has cheated or had an affair, one of the most problematic is sex. After all, it’s sex with someone else that caused the affair in the first place. And, there may have been sexual issues in your marriage before the infidelity. So, […]
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By: Katie Lersch: It can be a relief when your husband says the words you want to hear after you catch him cheating or having an affair. Despite your shock, pain, and anger, it can be reassuring to hear him say that he is sorry, that he will never cheat again, and that he will […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are so frustrated by their husband’s “confusion” after he has been caught cheating or having an affair. Often, the wives expect or hope that he is going to apologize profusely and immediately begin to attempt to make amends. But this isn’t always what happens. Sometimes, the […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Believe it or not, some of the visitors to this blog are cheating spouses. Yes, I write from the perspective of the faithful spouse. But I’ve had cheating spouses tell me that some of my articles help provide them with perspective, as well as guidance on how to move forward. Sometimes, I […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many spouses suspect their spouse of cheating before they actually catch him. Sometimes, there are both subtle and not-so-subtle clues along the way. Sometimes, the cheating spouse is actually caught early on, but he finds a way to convincingly explain himself. So while he may have already been cheating, the faithful spouse […]
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