My Husband Initially Told Me He Had a One Night Stand With a Coworker But Now I Find Out It Was More

By: Katie Lersch: It’s no fun to feel as if you are at the mercy of your cheating spouse for information about the affair. In the early stages, he can and does tell you what he wants you to know. However, typically, as time goes on, information begins to leak out and you begin to […]

I’m Annoyed By My Husband’s Passivity After His Affair

By: Katie Lersch: Few faithful spouses are fully satisfied with their spouse’s behavior after an affair. Sometimes, he’s not sorry enough. Other times, he is indignant, clueless, or uncaring. Some husbands refuse to show much of anything. Others have very strong reactions and behaviors. Regardless of how they behave, wives usually dislike at least some […]

I Can’t Stand to Look at Wedding Pictures or Think Back on Any Good Memories After My Husband’s Affair

By: Katie Lersch: After your spouse cheats or has an affair, things can feel tainted. You can feel as if the life you thought was yours wasn’t really yours to keep. It can start to feel that it was all a lie or that you were the only one who was truly in the right […]

My Husband Cheated. And Now He’s Tired of the Fallout From His Affair

By: Katie Lersch: Husbands and wives rarely agree about consequences after an affair. The faithful spouse generally wants appropriate, swift, and lasting consequences, while the cheating spouse wants to express their regret, make things right, and then move on with picking up the pieces of their life. But here’s the problem. Recovery isn’t always linear. […]